When a girl asks...

[phish]

"How far have you been with other girls?" What could/does that mean?

 

[CrazyGoNuts]

well I guess it depend what relationship you had with that girl. If she is a friend of yours she might be curious about it for a variety of reasons, but I am sure this girl is someone you are interested in...

She could be a lil sexually inexperienced herself, but she is interested in you and whats to know how "far" you've gone as well. Sometimes girls can be a bit cautious when they start to really explore sex stuff with guys and are too embarrassed to do it with someone who has considerable more experience than they do. Remember, girls have self-conscious issues too..

 

[phish]

right now the relationship is flirting/friendship

i am taking it further

so im guessing shes interested in knowing this because she wants to know if she can go further without feeling embarassed?? im kinda confused about the whole thing..

 

[phish]

also, what do you think would be a good reply to a question like this?

at the time, i felt that i should say i have only done certain things as to not intimidate her...it felt right to me.

so i actually held back some stuff/lied.

i think i did the best thing for my situtation - feel free to criticize me tho

i'd still like more detail on what this question "means" from a girl.

 

[CrazyGoNuts]

that could be a way of looking at it, I am by no means a DJ just yet but when it comes to sex stuff girls dont normally ask those kinda questions for no reason.

 

[GaryNas]

No offence, but it seems like something a girl in high school would ask. Maybe she's a virgin since the more typical question is "How many people have you slept with?", not asking how far you've gone.

 

[The_King]

I would take it as an oppurtunity to increase the interest level by laying on the C + F or similar stuff... maybe say something like

"Oh quite far ....to the next state, did that answer your question?"

" I don't kiss and tell"

"C'mon, what do you think! (with a knowing look)"

"look you can't seduce me that way...I think your going to have to try abit harder"

"which one?"

"I will tell you, when I think you deserve to know"

"why does it always revovle around sex with you? don't you want to get to know the real me...I hate it when women do this to me...your just like all the rest"

Those are the sort of replies I would fire back if I felt they were in the context.

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by The_King
I would take it as an oppurtunity to increase the interest level by laying on the C + F or similar stuff... maybe say something like

"Oh quite far ....to the next state, did that answer your question?"

" I don't kiss and tell"

"C'mon, what do you think! (with a knowing look)"

"look you can't seduce me that way...I think your going to have to try abit harder"

"which one?"

"I will tell you, when I think you deserve to know"

"why does it always revovle around sex with you? don't you want to get to know the real me...I hate it when women do this to me...your just like all the rest"

Those are the sort of replies I would fire back if I felt they were in the context.

these are actually pretty good. whena girl asks something relating to past gf's, it definitely mean they have high IL in you.
my friend did that **** to me, asked me how much gf's i had in the past. I just walked around the question and not really answering it.

but yea, the safest way is to avoid being AFC and answering her straight out. cause you'll never know what answer she expects to hear from you, which will increase her IL if you dont tell her.
similarly, this is also a test they throw at you.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

she has very high IL.

wants to know how experienced you are.

my present girlfriend once asked me,

"are you a player? ive heard you are. "

i juz smiled. and now we're a couple.

you don't have to answer every question she throws at ya.

leave a sense of mystery.

 

[phish]

thanks for the replies.

yeah she is in high school, as far as if she's virgin or not, i dont know, nor do i really care.

BTW what does laying "C + F" mean?

 

[JSH]

****y and Funny

 

[Skel]

tell her

"Ive messed around with other girls but Im waiting for the right person to have sex with"

Then take her hands in yours, look in her eyes and kiss her. AFter that **** her

 

[The_King]

Nice Guy alert....

"Ive messed around with other girls but Im waiting for the right person to have sex with"

I would not use this, as it just seems too sweet and innocent, AFC, whether it be true or not. It also seems like a line out of some chick-flick..remain a challenge, be a man. That comment then action would you require you to really know the girl and of been dating for awhile otherwise it seems fake.

I may be wrong, it might work in the right situation, like both drunk and both sitting on your bed but its definately nothing I would recommend. I would rather use one of my comments from above, look her in the eyes then glance at her lips, then back to her eyes then go in for the kill.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by phish
"How far have you been with other girls?" What could/does that mean?

Means she wants her Salad Tossed... followed by a Dirty Sanchez...

Tell her you'll fart in her mouth.... then say 'How's that for going far?'

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

use humor

Tell her you took a girl to the north pole....than pause for a second to let the double-entendre sink in.

 

[dillin]

Originally posted by GaryNas
No offence, but it seems like something a girl in high school would ask. Maybe she's a virgin since the more typical question is "How many people have you slept with?", not asking how far you've gone.

I was wondering why chicks ask me how many other girls I've slept with. I just got asked this when I was spittin game at some HB8 who was sexy as hell.

 

[LikRetsam]

lol, I like the answers above.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: use humor

Originally posted by Ol'BlueEyes
Tell her you took a girl to the north pole....than pause for a second to let the double-entendre sink in.

Don't you mean the "SOUTH Pole?"

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by phish
"How far have you been with other girls?"

"Why do you want to know? It doesn't have to be a competition."

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

Don't you mean the "SOUTH Pole?"

(in the voice of Vic Romano)
Right you are, Fran.