"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's your opinion about gals that smoke?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SmooveMooves

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Maryjane or cigarettes?

I think most people dislike cigarette smokers boy or girl because they stink. Weed is fine in my book. In my age bracket a lot of women are doing drugs. Rather it be good ole fashioned weed than the harder stuff.
 

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Not relationship material. There's something about being addicted to that stuff that is a red flag to me. There's also those women who are 'social smokers' as in they only smoke when other people around them are. That screams insecurity to me and if they're around the crowd that smokes to begin with and they aren't able to resist the social pressure of not smoking, who's to say they'll be able to resist when the stronger stuff comes out? I don't like it.
 

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I think 99% of SS would go out with a smoker if she looked good. It's not like SS members are drowning in good looking girls or having too much sex. But suddenly we are alpha and that good looking to be that picky? It's like if the girl has a small flaw, we become James Bond.

More than half the time I think the men on this site are fooling themselves to make themselves feel better. :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Doesnt work for me, and told the same thing to my first girlfriend who thought I was being alfa and loved it when it really was just growing up with a mom who smoked all day long and eventually got lung cancer and died a horrible slow death. Not relationship material if she doesnt stop smoking, absolutely hate it.
 

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I used to be a smoker and dated many women who did as well. Now that I've been there, I wouldn't want them for a relationship. It's a disruption to life, having to take breaks from it to have a cigarette. It's also a money pit.

Women have an extremely difficult time quitting smoking. I honestly believe that they form an emotional bond with cigarettes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lizardking82

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I don't like girls who smoke, but I've dated and ****ed smokers. I don't see it as a deal breaker for sex, but I don't like that for a LTR.
 

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just yuk, no
 

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SmooveMooves

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I think 99% of SS would go out with a smoker if she looked good. It's not like SS members are drowning in good looking girls or having too much sex. But suddenly we are alpha and that good looking to be that picky? It's like if the girl has a small flaw, we become James Bond.

More than half the time I think the men on this site are fooling themselves to make themselves feel better. :rolleyes:

I agree. Members of sosuave live in a fantasy world. They don't settle for anything less than absolute perfection. She can't drink or smoke, have any personal flaws, goto parties, have friends, have tattoos or piercings, or be less than 9.5.

Cause members here are swimming in pūssy!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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