"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's your opinion about gals that smoke?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SmooveMooves

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Maryjane or cigarettes?

I think most people dislike cigarette smokers boy or girl because they stink. Weed is fine in my book. In my age bracket a lot of women are doing drugs. Rather it be good ole fashioned weed than the harder stuff.
 

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Not relationship material. There's something about being addicted to that stuff that is a red flag to me. There's also those women who are 'social smokers' as in they only smoke when other people around them are. That screams insecurity to me and if they're around the crowd that smokes to begin with and they aren't able to resist the social pressure of not smoking, who's to say they'll be able to resist when the stronger stuff comes out? I don't like it.
 

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I think 99% of SS would go out with a smoker if she looked good. It's not like SS members are drowning in good looking girls or having too much sex. But suddenly we are alpha and that good looking to be that picky? It's like if the girl has a small flaw, we become James Bond.

More than half the time I think the men on this site are fooling themselves to make themselves feel better. :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Milano

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Doesnt work for me, and told the same thing to my first girlfriend who thought I was being alfa and loved it when it really was just growing up with a mom who smoked all day long and eventually got lung cancer and died a horrible slow death. Not relationship material if she doesnt stop smoking, absolutely hate it.
 

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I used to be a smoker and dated many women who did as well. Now that I've been there, I wouldn't want them for a relationship. It's a disruption to life, having to take breaks from it to have a cigarette. It's also a money pit.

Women have an extremely difficult time quitting smoking. I honestly believe that they form an emotional bond with cigarettes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lizardking82

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I don't like girls who smoke, but I've dated and ****ed smokers. I don't see it as a deal breaker for sex, but I don't like that for a LTR.
 

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just yuk, no
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SmooveMooves

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I think 99% of SS would go out with a smoker if she looked good. It's not like SS members are drowning in good looking girls or having too much sex. But suddenly we are alpha and that good looking to be that picky? It's like if the girl has a small flaw, we become James Bond.

More than half the time I think the men on this site are fooling themselves to make themselves feel better. :rolleyes:

I agree. Members of sosuave live in a fantasy world. They don't settle for anything less than absolute perfection. She can't drink or smoke, have any personal flaws, goto parties, have friends, have tattoos or piercings, or be less than 9.5.

Cause members here are swimming in pūssy!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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