"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's your opinion about gals that smoke?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SmooveMooves

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Maryjane or cigarettes?

I think most people dislike cigarette smokers boy or girl because they stink. Weed is fine in my book. In my age bracket a lot of women are doing drugs. Rather it be good ole fashioned weed than the harder stuff.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Not relationship material. There's something about being addicted to that stuff that is a red flag to me. There's also those women who are 'social smokers' as in they only smoke when other people around them are. That screams insecurity to me and if they're around the crowd that smokes to begin with and they aren't able to resist the social pressure of not smoking, who's to say they'll be able to resist when the stronger stuff comes out? I don't like it.
 

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I think 99% of SS would go out with a smoker if she looked good. It's not like SS members are drowning in good looking girls or having too much sex. But suddenly we are alpha and that good looking to be that picky? It's like if the girl has a small flaw, we become James Bond.

More than half the time I think the men on this site are fooling themselves to make themselves feel better. :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Milano

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Doesnt work for me, and told the same thing to my first girlfriend who thought I was being alfa and loved it when it really was just growing up with a mom who smoked all day long and eventually got lung cancer and died a horrible slow death. Not relationship material if she doesnt stop smoking, absolutely hate it.
 

Desdinova

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I used to be a smoker and dated many women who did as well. Now that I've been there, I wouldn't want them for a relationship. It's a disruption to life, having to take breaks from it to have a cigarette. It's also a money pit.

Women have an extremely difficult time quitting smoking. I honestly believe that they form an emotional bond with cigarettes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lizardking82

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I don't like girls who smoke, but I've dated and ****ed smokers. I don't see it as a deal breaker for sex, but I don't like that for a LTR.
 

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just yuk, no
 

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SmooveMooves

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I think 99% of SS would go out with a smoker if she looked good. It's not like SS members are drowning in good looking girls or having too much sex. But suddenly we are alpha and that good looking to be that picky? It's like if the girl has a small flaw, we become James Bond.

More than half the time I think the men on this site are fooling themselves to make themselves feel better. :rolleyes:

I agree. Members of sosuave live in a fantasy world. They don't settle for anything less than absolute perfection. She can't drink or smoke, have any personal flaws, goto parties, have friends, have tattoos or piercings, or be less than 9.5.

Cause members here are swimming in pūssy!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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