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Whats with the BPD obsession on these forums?

Julian

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Seriously wtf is going on
 

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Maybe they needed a break from arguing about boundaries?
 

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:D when two people are together their personalities merge with time. So if one has Borderline personality, the other ones brain becomes a piece of ****t with time and then when its over this is a good place to talk about it so,..
 

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Go through one. Then you will understand.

Also, this is a discussion forum. People discuss topics. Like any other social dynamic, certain topics sometimes become "hot".
 

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Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most.

They also need an excuse to stop pursuing a girl they know they dont have a chance with too.

I think its because they're just scared.
 

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most.

They also need an excuse to stop pursuing a girl they know they dont have a chance with too.

I think its because they're just scared.
I think you need to find yourself one, be with her for a few years, then see if you are unchanged. I was with one that fits the BPD diagnosis exactly and she totally fvcked with my mind, I am still not the same. They break you down mentally.

A lot of guys find this forum because of crap with their gf who might actually have BPD or might just be a crazy b1tch. So even though there might only be 1-2% of the population that has BPD, the majority of guys posting here about it have experienced being with one.
 

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I'd like to take at least some of the credit. I started posting about my bpd girl in 2007. I don't remember there being a lot of use of that acronym on sosuave before then.
 

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That's SS's favorite adjective! But seriously, a lot of guys had contact with this disorder and are experienced to see signs of others' description of their females.
 

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I hope you won't face this kind of hell.... this sh1t can fvck you brain.

Joe.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most.

They also need an excuse to stop pursuing a girl they know they dont have a chance with too.

I think its because they're just scared.
I think you need to get involved with a BPD...go out and find yourself one. See what kind of a hellish mindfvck you'll go through, then form an opinion.
 

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Theres truth to what all of you are saying, wether agreeing or disagreeing. But either way I think we can all come to the conclusion that there are way too many threads with BPD in the fukking title on this forum. "back in my day"...sounding old now...but seriously this **** wasnt even talked about. I guess the games changing.


And the problem here is males are beta, and crazy is crazy and bad behavior is bad behavior no matter what the fukk "disorder" you want to call it. And justifying your current state and having some female be your entire world and shake your being to its core is pretty fukked up in my mind regardless of anything else going on.

Some of you guys are talking like you escaped world war Z. More like World War B...for Beta.

A little common sense goes a long way...and allowing a chick to take control of you ultimately is YOUR fault...NOT hers.
 

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We have to get it through our heads that the game is changing. All of the college aged know-it-alls and 30 year old AFCs wanting to change who don't even glance at "The Archive" and DJ Bible sections know better than the ones who have been here for years. These guys are able to clean house on POF if that's not smooth I don't know what is.

If anything we need more posts about BPD, social media, and never talking to the women we like in person. These new comers who know better than us, and have much to teach. They need to teach us how to evolve in the world where all chicks have BPD, and if you use the right combination of social media apps you'll be rolling in puzzy.

MODERN WORLD FTW

Rock on :rockon:
 

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salinechow said:
Go through one. Then you will understand.

Yup.

A lot of men join these forums because they've been fvcked mentally by a BPD and are scrambled. If you're questioning why dating a BPD has such a profound impact on a man's very livelihood, then you're an extremely lucky man. Simple as. I hope that luck keeps up for you. I would only wish that sh!t on my worst enemy and no one else.
 

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most
The facts are, 1-2% of people have BPD. That's including men, meaning the percentage of women with BPD is a lot smaller. The internet age has allowed people to become psuedo Psychiatrists, Dentists, and Health Officials. People read a set a symptoms online and start offering thier expert diagnosis. Similar to the guy who reads WebMD & start worrying he may have cancer.

It's annoying seeing Sosauvians bítch about "BPD" women, cause then we get misinformation spreading around and guys like ImTheDoubleGreatest! thinking 15-30% of women have a serious mental disorder. Lol. Seriously?

So to all my "BPD" ex girl war vets who are lucky to had survived, I say three things.

-Basing off statistics, chances are, she wasn't really BPD.

-Chances are the next chick you date won't be either.

-If you truly were in the less than 1%, Nobody forced you to date these chicks. & You chose her.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
most of the BPD deniers are themselves cluster B.
According to what? Your medical opinion?

Counting all Cluster B personality disorders, it is estimated 5% of the general population in the US are affected. According to Sonia G. Austrian a social scientist.

And when Sosuavians scream BPD they mean BPD because they then proceed to copy & paste symptoms from MayoClinic trying to "draw the parallels"
 
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