Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think you need to find yourself one, be with her for a few years, then see if you are unchanged. I was with one that fits the BPD diagnosis exactly and she totally fvcked with my mind, I am still not the same. They break you down mentally.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most.
They also need an excuse to stop pursuing a girl they know they dont have a chance with too.
I think its because they're just scared.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I think you need to get involved with a BPD...go out and find yourself one. See what kind of a hellish mindfvck you'll go through, then form an opinion.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most.
They also need an excuse to stop pursuing a girl they know they dont have a chance with too.
I think its because they're just scared.
salinechow said:Go through one. Then you will understand.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's Borderline Personality Disorder that is being discussed lately not Bipolar.Maximus Rex said:Why Are There So Many Threads on Bipolar Chicks on So Suave? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212103
The facts are, 1-2% of people have BPD. That's including men, meaning the percentage of women with BPD is a lot smaller. The internet age has allowed people to become psuedo Psychiatrists, Dentists, and Health Officials. People read a set a symptoms online and start offering thier expert diagnosis. Similar to the guy who reads WebMD & start worrying he may have cancer.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most
Some experienced a bdp. Some have bad experiances where they were played hard and claim she had bdp.Julian said:Seriously wtf is going on
According to what? Your medical opinion?PairPlusRoyalFlush said:most of the BPD deniers are themselves cluster B.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.