You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think you need to find yourself one, be with her for a few years, then see if you are unchanged. I was with one that fits the BPD diagnosis exactly and she totally fvcked with my mind, I am still not the same. They break you down mentally.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most.
They also need an excuse to stop pursuing a girl they know they dont have a chance with too.
I think its because they're just scared.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think you need to get involved with a BPD...go out and find yourself one. See what kind of a hellish mindfvck you'll go through, then form an opinion.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most.
They also need an excuse to stop pursuing a girl they know they dont have a chance with too.
I think its because they're just scared.
salinechow said:Go through one. Then you will understand.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's Borderline Personality Disorder that is being discussed lately not Bipolar.Maximus Rex said:Why Are There So Many Threads on Bipolar Chicks on So Suave? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212103
The facts are, 1-2% of people have BPD. That's including men, meaning the percentage of women with BPD is a lot smaller. The internet age has allowed people to become psuedo Psychiatrists, Dentists, and Health Officials. People read a set a symptoms online and start offering thier expert diagnosis. Similar to the guy who reads WebMD & start worrying he may have cancer.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:Its because they need an excuse as to why they don't understand a girl or why they failed with one. According to the boards here, about 70%-80% of all women are BPDs which is SO far off from the truth. Its more like 15%-30% at most
Some experienced a bdp. Some have bad experiances where they were played hard and claim she had bdp.Julian said:Seriously wtf is going on
According to what? Your medical opinion?PairPlusRoyalFlush said:most of the BPD deniers are themselves cluster B.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.