"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As above really

Shes entitled to do what she wants and its only our 2nd date tonight obv thats good for me and i railed her good on the last date then withdrew attention,

whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"

obv im spinning plates but im under the impression thats the worst thing you can confirm to a woman, its never worked for me in the past,.....yes women are double standards
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"
‘Make sure you get tested before we have sex.’
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As above really

Shes entitled to do what she wants and its only our 2nd date tonight obv thats good for me and i railed her good on the last date then withdrew attention,

whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"

obv im spinning plates but im under the impression thats the worst thing you can confirm to a woman, its never worked for me in the past,.....yes women are double standards
Good...you need someone to keep your mind off me when I'm not available
 

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A girl would state this for three reasons:

1) She wants to keep it non-exclusive and make sure you overtly understand this, as you likely didn’t pick up on her covert cues; or

2) She wants to make you jealous in a manipulative attempt for you to desire and request exclusivity to get her off the market (before you lose her); or

3) She is unsure of your motive and is feeling you out to see where you are at so she can mirror or respond accordingly.

What you say is not as relevant as your understanding the motive behind her overtness and responding accordingly. Look at her actions to determine from which of the three motivations she is operating.
 
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