"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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whats the general reply to a woman who is dating other men

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As above really

Shes entitled to do what she wants and its only our 2nd date tonight obv thats good for me and i railed her good on the last date then withdrew attention,

whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"

obv im spinning plates but im under the impression thats the worst thing you can confirm to a woman, its never worked for me in the past,.....yes women are double standards
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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derby1 said:
whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"
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‘Make sure you get tested before we have sex.’
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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derby1 said:
As above really

Shes entitled to do what she wants and its only our 2nd date tonight obv thats good for me and i railed her good on the last date then withdrew attention,

whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"

obv im spinning plates but im under the impression thats the worst thing you can confirm to a woman, its never worked for me in the past,.....yes women are double standards
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Good...you need someone to keep your mind off me when I'm not available
 
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A girl would state this for three reasons:

1) She wants to keep it non-exclusive and make sure you overtly understand this, as you likely didn’t pick up on her covert cues; or

2) She wants to make you jealous in a manipulative attempt for you to desire and request exclusivity to get her off the market (before you lose her); or

3) She is unsure of your motive and is feeling you out to see where you are at so she can mirror or respond accordingly.

What you say is not as relevant as your understanding the motive behind her overtness and responding accordingly. Look at her actions to determine from which of the three motivations she is operating.
 
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