"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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whats the general reply to a woman who is dating other men

derby1

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As above really

Shes entitled to do what she wants and its only our 2nd date tonight obv thats good for me and i railed her good on the last date then withdrew attention,

whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"

obv im spinning plates but im under the impression thats the worst thing you can confirm to a woman, its never worked for me in the past,.....yes women are double standards
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"
‘Make sure you get tested before we have sex.’
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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As above really

Shes entitled to do what she wants and its only our 2nd date tonight obv thats good for me and i railed her good on the last date then withdrew attention,

whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"

obv im spinning plates but im under the impression thats the worst thing you can confirm to a woman, its never worked for me in the past,.....yes women are double standards
Good...you need someone to keep your mind off me when I'm not available
 

guru1000

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A girl would state this for three reasons:

1) She wants to keep it non-exclusive and make sure you overtly understand this, as you likely didn’t pick up on her covert cues; or

2) She wants to make you jealous in a manipulative attempt for you to desire and request exclusivity to get her off the market (before you lose her); or

3) She is unsure of your motive and is feeling you out to see where you are at so she can mirror or respond accordingly.

What you say is not as relevant as your understanding the motive behind her overtness and responding accordingly. Look at her actions to determine from which of the three motivations she is operating.
 
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