"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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whats the general reply to a woman who is dating other men

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As above really

Shes entitled to do what she wants and its only our 2nd date tonight obv thats good for me and i railed her good on the last date then withdrew attention,

whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"

obv im spinning plates but im under the impression thats the worst thing you can confirm to a woman, its never worked for me in the past,.....yes women are double standards
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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derby1 said:
whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"
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‘Make sure you get tested before we have sex.’
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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derby1 said:
As above really

Shes entitled to do what she wants and its only our 2nd date tonight obv thats good for me and i railed her good on the last date then withdrew attention,

whats some good replies if she was to say the words "im dating others"

obv im spinning plates but im under the impression thats the worst thing you can confirm to a woman, its never worked for me in the past,.....yes women are double standards
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Good...you need someone to keep your mind off me when I'm not available
 
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A girl would state this for three reasons:

1) She wants to keep it non-exclusive and make sure you overtly understand this, as you likely didn’t pick up on her covert cues; or

2) She wants to make you jealous in a manipulative attempt for you to desire and request exclusivity to get her off the market (before you lose her); or

3) She is unsure of your motive and is feeling you out to see where you are at so she can mirror or respond accordingly.

What you say is not as relevant as your understanding the motive behind her overtness and responding accordingly. Look at her actions to determine from which of the three motivations she is operating.
 
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