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What's the furthest you would drive for a date?

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Shocked I haven't seen a thread about this due to the high gas prices and all. But for a first date especially what is the furthest you will drive since many of them turn out to be no second dates and a waste? Especially when using OLD.
 

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Shocked I haven't seen a thread about this due to the high gas prices and all. But for a first date especially what is the furthest you will drive since many of them turn out to be no second dates and a waste? Especially when using OLD.
I've driven 2 hrs and have had women drive 2 hours, 10-12 years ago when I lived in California, where gas prices then were $4 or so a gallon. That being said, this was to their house/my house and sex was pretty much a given.

For a regular OLD date and they weren't super interested and horny, I'd only do 45 minutes
 

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Depends, I live 30-50 minutes from downtown depending on traffic so I don’t have a choice. That’s the only exception I will make.
 

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I think that depends on the potential outcome.

If it's a long term thing, then it shouldnt be that far away. 40 minutes is the ultimate maximum for me.

If it's more of a one night thing, then it's okay to travel about an hour. Everything more exceeds the time/value ratio imo.
 

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30 minutes. I have made the effort to have all women I interact with live within a 30 minute drive (free flowing traffic) of me. This took conscious manipulation during the time in which I used swipe apps. When I meet people in person, it's even easier not to meet people who live more than 30 minutes away.
 

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Depends what type of mood im in and whats in it for me.

Generally half an hour.
 

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Back in my single days I just used to meet halfway. I would drive further if it was a place I actually wanted to go regardless of company.
 

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I'm actually pretty proud I got a woman to fly to spend the weekend with me for a first date...and a number of repeat dates...

Some dates are worth more effort than others. I have to go 45 miles to the BIG CITY. If I have to go that far to get a date, I'd sure vet that prospect more than someone in my home town I could meet for coffee.
 

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I'm actually pretty proud I got a woman to fly to spend the weekend with me for a first date...and a number of repeat dates...

Some dates are worth more effort than others. I have to go 45 miles to the BIG CITY. If I have to go that far to get a date, I'd sure vet that prospect more than someone in my home town I could meet for coffee.
I drove 60 miles once! The chick looked okay in the pics, and she played vollyball too. Key word "played." I didn't vet her enough and she was about 30lbs heavier than her pics.

I do a better job of vetting cell numbers. When I get the number I go on a reverse search site like Spydailer and get their full name. I then go on Facebook and look them up. That way I can see more current pics.

You'd be shocked women use 6 year old pics when I go on FB and see they took the pic like in 2015 and using it on their profile.

This has probably saved me about 25 times from wasting money.
 

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I drove 60 miles once! The chick looked okay in the pics, and she played vollyball too. Key word "played." I didn't vet her enough and she was about 30lbs heavier than her pics.

I do a better job of vetting cell numbers. When I get the number I go on a reverse search site like Spydailer and get their full name. I then go on Facebook and look them up. That way I can see more current pics.

You'd be shocked women use 6 year old pics when I go on FB and see they took the pic like in 2015 and using it on their profile.

This has probably saved me about 25 times from wasting money.

yeaH WE KNOW...YOU'VE POSTED THIS dozens OF TIMES...

According to the number of women who "aren't good enough" for you how many times a day you "mixin a batch"? Maybe if you slowed down on the crank yankin' some of these women might pass your boner test....
 
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Drove from Toronto to New York City to meet a penpal for the first time and dragged my folks along with me. Drove across Brooklyn and Manhattan like at 2 am in the morning after dropping her back home. Was in a weird state of mind during that time back in 2015 and going over some shocking events from the previous year with a divorce and other business. I drove the whole way going to it, and I was more shy or worried about seeing her in person rather than the drive.
 

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When I was 19, I flew to Europe for a date,

Now, the farthest I’d go is across the street.
 

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Shocked I haven't seen a thread about this due to the high gas prices and all. But for a first date especially what is the furthest you will drive since many of them turn out to be no second dates and a waste? Especially when using OLD.

Zero.

I never drive to dates with new girls, because i am always drinking or trying to drink with them and also because i am too lazy/unmotivated for that.

Always schedule at a place within walking distance to your house/apartment. Setting up logistics in your favor from the beginning is key.
 

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Zero.

I never drive to dates with new girls, because i am always drinking or trying to drink with them and also because i am too lazy/unmotivated for that.

Always schedule at a place within walking distance to your house/apartment. Setting up logistics in your favor from the beginning is key.
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You guys and your ALWAYS and NEVER.....

There are no absolutes!

You gotta play to your strengths and if proximity to your home is one, then great...That has never held me back from any sort of success though. FWIW the only time I ever lived somewhere where things were walking distance to my home was in College!
 
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