stoner1129
Don Juan
yeah i will, now i'm sayin what's happenin cuz it's a little funny
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What would you guys have said?
- Thread starter stoner1129
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
stoner1129
Don Juan
just one last thing, i tried for her number, and she said "maybe i think i should get to no u a little more before i give u my # but i really like u jordan because i can just talk to u about anything but i guess we can talk later" I don't know what to say to that or what to do.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i know we've hardly even talked, like maybe 7-8 comments over all
stoner1129 said:i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
no wonder. can't help you. good luck. btw. if you are a stoner, stop. It's not gonna help your game or your life. Trust an ex stoner on this one.
and remember, try stuff and figure it out. more women will come along. learn something from this.
Just for ****es and giggles. If you could say what you really want to say to this girl what would it be?
stoner1129
Don Juan
no i'm not really a stoner lol, and if i could say anything to her i would probably tell her that she should hurry up and give me her number b4 i lose interest lol maybe, I don't really know
lol. try it and see if you don't care about the outcome. spend some time being real and honest with women just to see that they don't bite. Don't ever be fake just to get some ass.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
stoner1129
Don Juan
lol i might but i'm not sure, i haven't started spinnin any other plates yet but i need to start
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.