"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What would you guys have said?

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Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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stoner1129 said:
Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.
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You should have went for the #.
 
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stoner1129 said:
Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.
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Are you sure it wasn't just one of those spam/porn profiles?
 
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She's cute but are you sure she's real?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime"

I woulda hit her back with
"I know, and if you want to talk to me, there's already a pretty big line up so you might have to wait a few years :p"
 
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"Sure, it'll be $4.99 a minute. I take credit cards, but no PayPal."
 
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Lol yeah i'm sure it's real, she has pics of her and her friends and stuff. I'm really not that experienced with girls, so if she like sends anything back i'll let you guys know.

What should I have said for a # close, should I have been like "Well how about you give me ur # and i'll call you"??
 
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Well, I would recommend reading her page then. You'll notice that almost all the comments on her page seem to be random people she friended, and it looks like she used the same cheesy line she gave you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think she is a troll actually, she's one of my cousin's friends on there, and my couzin is a girl, so i'll guess i'll have to ask my cuz 'bout her lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i checked it out and your a decent looking guy...

browse girls and message them and their top friends

use this...

wow your a cutie :)

lets chat... whats up with u??


I call troll on the other profile
 
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lol ok cool, just she now asked me to tell her about myself, so what should i say to sound cool
she sent me this "well i am tall, mexican,130 pounds,and i am in to guys like u so tell me about u? beautiful"
 
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stop depending on other people to write your own messages. What do you want to say? And if you are this lame online how the hell will you keep up with her in real life in a real conversation. You need to stop thinking so much and just go with the flow. Get out of your head. Do you know what to do in a convo with a female at all?

First, don't talk about yourself.

Second get off the internet with her as soon as possible. Get a phone number, set up a meet up for coffee somewhere and talk to her.

Talk about her, get her life story, find out what she's about. Lead the convo, lead the interaction.

Set up a day 2 or second date so you can do something fun. Get her to your crib, tap that ass. Have fun!

These are the basics. Learn em.
 
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well she asked what sports i did so i sent this lol
i wreslte, maybe i can show u some moves, what do u do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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