stoner1129
Don Juan
yeah i will, now i'm sayin what's happenin cuz it's a little funny
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What would you guys have said?
- Thread starter stoner1129
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
stoner1129
Don Juan
just one last thing, i tried for her number, and she said "maybe i think i should get to no u a little more before i give u my # but i really like u jordan because i can just talk to u about anything but i guess we can talk later" I don't know what to say to that or what to do.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i know we've hardly even talked, like maybe 7-8 comments over all
stoner1129 said:i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
no wonder. can't help you. good luck. btw. if you are a stoner, stop. It's not gonna help your game or your life. Trust an ex stoner on this one.
and remember, try stuff and figure it out. more women will come along. learn something from this.
Just for ****es and giggles. If you could say what you really want to say to this girl what would it be?
stoner1129
Don Juan
no i'm not really a stoner lol, and if i could say anything to her i would probably tell her that she should hurry up and give me her number b4 i lose interest lol maybe, I don't really know
lol. try it and see if you don't care about the outcome. spend some time being real and honest with women just to see that they don't bite. Don't ever be fake just to get some ass.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
stoner1129
Don Juan
lol i might but i'm not sure, i haven't started spinnin any other plates yet but i need to start
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.