stoner1129
Don Juan
yeah i will, now i'm sayin what's happenin cuz it's a little funny
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What would you guys have said?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
stoner1129
Don Juan
just one last thing, i tried for her number, and she said "maybe i think i should get to no u a little more before i give u my # but i really like u jordan because i can just talk to u about anything but i guess we can talk later" I don't know what to say to that or what to do.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i know we've hardly even talked, like maybe 7-8 comments over all
stoner1129 said:i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
no wonder. can't help you. good luck. btw. if you are a stoner, stop. It's not gonna help your game or your life. Trust an ex stoner on this one.
and remember, try stuff and figure it out. more women will come along. learn something from this.
Just for ****es and giggles. If you could say what you really want to say to this girl what would it be?
stoner1129
Don Juan
no i'm not really a stoner lol, and if i could say anything to her i would probably tell her that she should hurry up and give me her number b4 i lose interest lol maybe, I don't really know
lol. try it and see if you don't care about the outcome. spend some time being real and honest with women just to see that they don't bite. Don't ever be fake just to get some ass.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
stoner1129
Don Juan
lol i might but i'm not sure, i haven't started spinnin any other plates yet but i need to start
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.