stoner1129
Don Juan
yeah i will, now i'm sayin what's happenin cuz it's a little funny
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What would you guys have said?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
stoner1129
Don Juan
just one last thing, i tried for her number, and she said "maybe i think i should get to no u a little more before i give u my # but i really like u jordan because i can just talk to u about anything but i guess we can talk later" I don't know what to say to that or what to do.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i know we've hardly even talked, like maybe 7-8 comments over all
stoner1129 said:i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
no wonder. can't help you. good luck. btw. if you are a stoner, stop. It's not gonna help your game or your life. Trust an ex stoner on this one.
and remember, try stuff and figure it out. more women will come along. learn something from this.
Just for ****es and giggles. If you could say what you really want to say to this girl what would it be?
stoner1129
Don Juan
no i'm not really a stoner lol, and if i could say anything to her i would probably tell her that she should hurry up and give me her number b4 i lose interest lol maybe, I don't really know
lol. try it and see if you don't care about the outcome. spend some time being real and honest with women just to see that they don't bite. Don't ever be fake just to get some ass.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
stoner1129
Don Juan
lol i might but i'm not sure, i haven't started spinnin any other plates yet but i need to start
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.