stoner1129
Don Juan
yeah i will, now i'm sayin what's happenin cuz it's a little funny
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What would you guys have said?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
stoner1129
Don Juan
just one last thing, i tried for her number, and she said "maybe i think i should get to no u a little more before i give u my # but i really like u jordan because i can just talk to u about anything but i guess we can talk later" I don't know what to say to that or what to do.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
stoner1129
Don Juan
i know we've hardly even talked, like maybe 7-8 comments over all
stoner1129 said:i'm 17, and she's 18? that's what it says on her page
no wonder. can't help you. good luck. btw. if you are a stoner, stop. It's not gonna help your game or your life. Trust an ex stoner on this one.
and remember, try stuff and figure it out. more women will come along. learn something from this.
Just for ****es and giggles. If you could say what you really want to say to this girl what would it be?
stoner1129
Don Juan
no i'm not really a stoner lol, and if i could say anything to her i would probably tell her that she should hurry up and give me her number b4 i lose interest lol maybe, I don't really know
lol. try it and see if you don't care about the outcome. spend some time being real and honest with women just to see that they don't bite. Don't ever be fake just to get some ass.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
Also be looking to get other women on your team. don't concentrate on just one. I think they call it spinning plates around here.
stoner1129
Don Juan
lol i might but i'm not sure, i haven't started spinnin any other plates yet but i need to start
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.