What will marriage give a man that he doesn’t already have?

[mrgoodstuff]

Dammit my EQ is low af
My ex thought I was a robot.

Why?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It depends.

A woman who is in the same age group as me would hv an higher EQ vs me.

A man's EQ is generally lower then a females.

Wouldnt a powerful CEO or VP have a higher EQ being fully aware of her persona where she could fit in and where to discard?

 

[lamath]

It depends.

A woman who is in the same age group as me would hv an higher EQ vs me.

A man's EQ is generally lower then a females.

Best reason to go younger

 

[Spaz]

Wouldnt a powerful CEO or VP have a higher EQ being fully aware of her persona where she could fit in and where to discard?

It depends.

A powerful CEO could be a nerd and attained that position via his intellectual capabilities.

A nerd has even lower EQ then the average man.

 

[Spaz]

Best reason to go younger

Yes. That's the idea.

Ideally you should have an equal or greater EQ then ur partner.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It depends.

A powerful CEO could be a nerd and attained that position via his intellectual capabilities.

A nerd has even lower EQ then the average man.

Agree for the most part. What is a "nerd"? IMHO Steph Curry is a basketball nerd. A geek about minor details and information his peers overlook.

 

[lamath]

Why?

I don't show many emotions especially negative one

 

[Spaz]

I don't show many emotions especially negative one

The EQ I'm talking abt is level of maturity.

So in that sense u r right in not showing 2 much emotions.

A man who displays high levels of emotions is basically the same as a boy in grown man's body. A man with low EQ.

 

[lamath]

The EQ I'm talking abt is level of maturity.

So in that sense u r right in not showing 2 much emotions.

A man who displays high levels of emotions is basically the same as a boy in grown man's body. A man with low EQ.

Got it
But that's probably one of the reason idk about going way too young.
The difference can be very big

 

[Spaz]

Got it
But that's probably one of the reason idk about going way too young.
The difference can be very big

What difference is that ? Do you mean those narratives that's being peddled by older women to remain viable ?

If she's of legal age then it's all good.

 

[lamath]

What difference is that ? Do you mean those narratives that's being peddled by older women to remain viable ?

If she's of legal age then it's all good.

I wont throw her out of my bed for sure
but lets just say it would be just about 1 thing

 

[The Duke]

Marriage would be okay provided he has good leadership skills and has a higher EQ then his future wife.

Anything else will fail.

Have you ever been married?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Have you ever been married?

I know you asking Spaz.

I have plenty of marriage and LTR experience.

My last wife fvcked me 2-3 times a day from 2001-2005 acting like she couldnt get enough. Cooked cleaned washed the clothes. Fought and took up for me. I swear to god we got married in 2005 and that night she was like "good, now i dont have to do all that anymore". It didnt register. But the next 6 yrs was the "war of the roses" where she had an intense hatred for me and i faced disrespect and humiliation multiple times daily.

 

[lamath]

I know you asking Spaz.

I have plenty of marriage and LTR experience.

My last wife fvcked me 2-3 times a day from 2001-2005 acting like she couldnt get enough. Cooked cleaned washed the clothes. Fought and took up for me. I swear to god we fot married in 2005 and that night she was like "good, now i dont have to do all that anymore". It didnt register. But the next 6 yrs was the "war of the roses" where she had an intense hatred for me and i faced disrespect and humiliation multiple times daily.

I know you asking Spaz.

I have plenty of marriage and LTR experience.

My last wife fvcked me 2-3 times a day from 2001-2005 acting like she couldnt get enough. Cooked cleaned washed the clothes. Fought and took up for me. I swear to god we fot married in 2005 and that night she was like "good, now i dont have to do all that anymore". It didnt register. But the next 6 yrs was the "war of the roses" where she had an intense hatred for me and i faced disrespect and humiliation multiple times daily.

Was similar for me the disrespect and the rediculous expectation. I should have set the boundries at the very start then i would have seen who she realy was.
Sex for her it seems it was just an obligation, agter awhile i was like **** it you are not interested im not interested im not trying anymore.

Because of the kids i did not cheat, bit had a few chances with younger and better looking women.
I did the man thing and dump her ass.

You got any kids man?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Was similar for me the disrespect and the rediculous expectation. I should have set the boundries at the very start then i would have seen who she realy was.
Sex for her it seems it was just an obligation, agter awhile i was like **** it you are not interested im not interested im not trying anymore.

Because of the kids i did not cheat, bit had a few chances with younger and better looking women.
I did the man thing and dump her ass.

You got any kids man?

Oh yeah. Kids locked me in to take the punishment. I find out that during early 2000s feminism gained power and ALOT of men were having the same issues. Wimen were being coached and supported.

Anyway She was a freak for sex. I was getting deep throat blow jobs all the way to the balls back then and it wasnt common even in porn. But what drove her to that level was her pulling me off another woman and away from friends. Competition. Once the competition was gone she turned. My red flag was she couldnt be wrong when we disagreed. Also she was a bully in disagreement and could resort to put downs and insults and physical violence. The sex and passion was so good i overlooked. Dumb man i was. No more.

 

[lamath]

Oh yeah. Kids locked me in to take the punishment. I find out that during early 2000s feminism gained power and ALOT of men were having the same issues. Wimen were being coached and supported.

Anyway She was a freak for sex. I was getting deep throat blow jobs all the way to the balls back then and it wasnt common even in porn. But what drove her to that level was her pulling me off another woman and away from friends. Competition. Once the competition was gone she turned. My red flag was she couldnt be wrong when we disagreed. Also she was a bully in disagreement and could resort to put downs and insults and physical violence. The sex and passion was so good i overlooked. Dumb man i was. No more.

On one thing i was lucky she never was able to get me away from my friends.

Man that never wrong thing same for me.

Her unrational reaction like hypeventilating, rocking crying all night where all justified necause i told her some.realy bad things all my fault ( telling she should eat better , het to sleep earlier etc ).

And then then the kids she could.not trust me to.do anything with them nut was always complaining i was not helping

Ima happy man now and she knows she wont ne able to do better than me. So she is taking it realy hard but im not there to deal with all the drama she likes to creates

 

[Spaz]

Have you ever been married?

Have been.

Was going to be.

And now it's on hold.

 

[Spaz]

I know you asking Spaz.

I have plenty of marriage and LTR experience.

My last wife fvcked me 2-3 times a day from 2001-2005 acting like she couldnt get enough. Cooked cleaned washed the clothes. Fought and took up for me. I swear to god we got married in 2005 and that night she was like "good, now i dont have to do all that anymore". It didnt register. But the next 6 yrs was the "war of the roses" where she had an intense hatred for me and i faced disrespect and humiliation multiple times daily.

Disrespect only happens when she doesn't admire you.

These happens when ur EQ + leadership skills fail.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Disrespect only happens when she doesn't admire you.

These happens when ur EQ + leadership skills fail.

Her mother was a monster. A true man eater who exploited dozens of men hen pecking them using the local community and police force. Most of her aunts where heavy masculine bull dykes. They where in her ear. I believe she wanted two kids out of me and it never was about love. It was about competition with my ex wife in the world of women. Nothing i couldve done but bailed earlier. I was much younger and naive as well. No way at this age would i have NOT been trying to do much more with her than occasional sex.

Man should take responsibility but sometimes there was nothing at all he could've done other than avoid the situation.

 

[Focal core]

What if his EQ and leadership is great but she had an 18 year consistent history of cheating in men and working against them, ultimately to their demise?

No amount of leadership skills could content a batchit crazy women which alots nowdays, choose a healthy emotionally female thats in deep interest with u.. Otherwise just have fun.