Heizen
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This needs to be stickied or something because this is the best explaination of kino I have ever seen.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What KINO is REALLY all about (Advanced)
- Thread starter DeepBlue
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
hmm
well.. i am curious to know of a way to use some good kino techniques during a hug? like stroke her back, or thighs? or where to rub etc.. i don't even know how i would go about doing this... run my fingers down her waist or? lol.... i am very new to this sort of stuff...
anyways thanks... good thread....9.5/10
well.. i am curious to know of a way to use some good kino techniques during a hug? like stroke her back, or thighs? or where to rub etc.. i don't even know how i would go about doing this... run my fingers down her waist or? lol.... i am very new to this sort of stuff...
anyways thanks... good thread....9.5/10
comic_relief
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I don't think kino on the intiail first approach is about sex at all.
I think when you cold approach a chick and you are casually touching her arm, back, etc you are doing it to connect with her, convey confidence, and show her you're special and social. Whenever you see those flirtatious, social animals... they always touch at the right point. As you share a laugh, give her a light touch.
The purpose of this is to connect, and as mentioned above, break barriers. Not to get her into sex.
Now...... kino on a date or whatever is for getting her hot mostly.
antidonjuan
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great analysis
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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well... what can I do if I read this thread a tad late, and was pretty safe and "afc" and therefore am now in the "just friends" category... any advice would be great plz read my thread for more info on my situation... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1417706#post1417706
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Tictac
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Good post!
The quote is I think where most guys fall down. Balancing the desire to initiate with not rushing it is something of an art.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
OsirisII
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