Heizen
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This needs to be stickied or something because this is the best explaination of kino I have ever seen.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What KINO is REALLY all about (Advanced)
- Thread starter DeepBlue
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
hmm
well.. i am curious to know of a way to use some good kino techniques during a hug? like stroke her back, or thighs? or where to rub etc.. i don't even know how i would go about doing this... run my fingers down her waist or? lol.... i am very new to this sort of stuff...
anyways thanks... good thread....9.5/10
well.. i am curious to know of a way to use some good kino techniques during a hug? like stroke her back, or thighs? or where to rub etc.. i don't even know how i would go about doing this... run my fingers down her waist or? lol.... i am very new to this sort of stuff...
anyways thanks... good thread....9.5/10
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
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I don't think kino on the intiail first approach is about sex at all.
I think when you cold approach a chick and you are casually touching her arm, back, etc you are doing it to connect with her, convey confidence, and show her you're special and social. Whenever you see those flirtatious, social animals... they always touch at the right point. As you share a laugh, give her a light touch.
The purpose of this is to connect, and as mentioned above, break barriers. Not to get her into sex.
Now...... kino on a date or whatever is for getting her hot mostly.
antidonjuan
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great analysis
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bose Rocks
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well... what can I do if I read this thread a tad late, and was pretty safe and "afc" and therefore am now in the "just friends" category... any advice would be great plz read my thread for more info on my situation... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1417706#post1417706
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Tictac
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Good post!
The quote is I think where most guys fall down. Balancing the desire to initiate with not rushing it is something of an art.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
OsirisII
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