Heizen
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This needs to be stickied or something because this is the best explaination of kino I have ever seen.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What KINO is REALLY all about (Advanced)
- Thread starter DeepBlue
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hmm
well.. i am curious to know of a way to use some good kino techniques during a hug? like stroke her back, or thighs? or where to rub etc.. i don't even know how i would go about doing this... run my fingers down her waist or? lol.... i am very new to this sort of stuff...
anyways thanks... good thread....9.5/10
well.. i am curious to know of a way to use some good kino techniques during a hug? like stroke her back, or thighs? or where to rub etc.. i don't even know how i would go about doing this... run my fingers down her waist or? lol.... i am very new to this sort of stuff...
anyways thanks... good thread....9.5/10
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
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I don't think kino on the intiail first approach is about sex at all.
I think when you cold approach a chick and you are casually touching her arm, back, etc you are doing it to connect with her, convey confidence, and show her you're special and social. Whenever you see those flirtatious, social animals... they always touch at the right point. As you share a laugh, give her a light touch.
The purpose of this is to connect, and as mentioned above, break barriers. Not to get her into sex.
Now...... kino on a date or whatever is for getting her hot mostly.
antidonjuan
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great analysis
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bose Rocks
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well... what can I do if I read this thread a tad late, and was pretty safe and "afc" and therefore am now in the "just friends" category... any advice would be great plz read my thread for more info on my situation... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1417706#post1417706
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Tictac
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Good post!
The quote is I think where most guys fall down. Balancing the desire to initiate with not rushing it is something of an art.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
OsirisII
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