"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What KINO is REALLY all about (Advanced)

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This needs to be stickied or something because this is the best explaination of kino I have ever seen.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hmm

well.. i am curious to know of a way to use some good kino techniques during a hug? like stroke her back, or thighs? or where to rub etc.. i don't even know how i would go about doing this... run my fingers down her waist or? lol.... i am very new to this sort of stuff...

anyways thanks... good thread....9.5/10
 
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bumpity bumpity bump
 
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Originally posted by lucien779
Ever had Fruit Loops without milk? You begin to crave for the milk. When you use kino on a girl, she begins to crave sex.
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I don't think kino on the intiail first approach is about sex at all.

I think when you cold approach a chick and you are casually touching her arm, back, etc you are doing it to connect with her, convey confidence, and show her you're special and social. Whenever you see those flirtatious, social animals... they always touch at the right point. As you share a laugh, give her a light touch.

The purpose of this is to connect, and as mentioned above, break barriers. Not to get her into sex.

Now...... kino on a date or whatever is for getting her hot mostly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good find tizzle. An oldie but a goodie.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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