"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Usually I just counter-C&F her. But as our relationship goes further, I got tired of her act. I'm thinking of telling her, please stop the C&F. Any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't TELL her. That's just whining about your own insecurity, because that's why you can't handle it properly in the first place. If she's trying to act like you should put her on a pedestal, show her she's only getting in her own way by doing that. You (should) have other options. In other words: spin plates.
 
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i would just negative reinforce it, like...

"mmm baby you're fiesty ****y attitude is totally turning me on... Lets try anal sex again!!!!... C'mon I will race you to the bedroom" tag her and run away "you're it!!"

:)

lol, honestly though you could just be cool about it and tone her down... Whenever she is being a ****y little *****, just be like "aww babe you can act nice and be YOURSELF whenever you're alone with me... Don't worry I won't tell your friends, You can still act like a badass around them"... she will get the hint.
 
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Thats why I don't date girls who do that in the first place. It starts to get on my nerves after a while. I would tell her to knock it off or I would just dump her.
 
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I kinda like girls that act fiesty, or think they are tuff. its some much more fun to tame em wit my stroke. =) I say loosen up a little.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fela Kuti said:
Usually I just counter-C&F her. But as our relationship goes further, I got tired of her act. I'm thinking of telling her, please stop the C&F. Any advice?
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What exactly is she doing/saying?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What exactly is she doing/saying?
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i'm paraphrasing here:

"you're lucky to have me"
"i don't love you that much anyway"
"my inbox is filled with your messages. i think i'm getting sick of it."

all were said in a joking tone though. but still..
 
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Fela Kuti said:
i'm paraphrasing here:
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"you're lucky to have me"
Francisco: "Perhaps, but you've always been luckier than me." ;)

"i don't love you that much anyway"
Francisco: "I know... You worship me, there's a difference y'know.."

"my inbox is filled with your messages. i think i'm getting sick of it."
Francisco: "Those aren't technically my messages, I submitted your email addy to the 'Amputee Midget Love' forum.

Don't take what she says personally, it's just playful flirting; play along. :up:
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
play along. :up:
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I tink da wittow baby got his feewings hurted. He don't wanna pway no more, its time for war!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fela Kuti said:
i'm paraphrasing here:

"you're lucky to have me"
"i don't love you that much anyway"
"my inbox is filled with your messages. i think i'm getting sick of it."

all were said in a joking tone though. but still..
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kick her in the man nuts....:trouble:

maybe you just can't handle this girl???

Try fvcking her younger sister... that always works for me. :woo: :cheer: :rockon:
 
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My new gf does that and I think it's cute. I like ****y women, its fun to argue with them.
 
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navyseal2101 said:
My new gf does that and I think it's cute. I like ****y women, its fun to argue with them.
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yeah, at first it was fun. but now, i don't know. well maybe i'm getting insecure now. haha.
 
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anyway, isn't the c&f better be toned down (if not eliminated) when you're in a LTR?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fela Kuti said:
anyway, isn't the c&f better be toned down (if not eliminated) when you're in a LTR?
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Just depends on what you like in a girl. In your case, it seems you don't like it, so try the things that have been provided in this thread and see if you get results you like.
 
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Just depends on what you like in a girl. In your case, it seems you don't like it, so try the things that have been provided in this thread and see if you get results you like.
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The thing is if c/f is a part of her nature (she was that way before they started dating) it may be a bit difficult if he wants her to change. Now, if he agrees to work on his insecurities if she agrees to tone down the c/f.... :cool:
 
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