"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What do you do if your GF plays the C&F on you?!
- Thread starter Fela Kuti
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HoneyHitter
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Randallpink83
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"mmm baby you're fiesty ****y attitude is totally turning me on... Lets try anal sex again!!!!... C'mon I will race you to the bedroom" tag her and run away "you're it!!"
lol, honestly though you could just be cool about it and tone her down... Whenever she is being a ****y little *****, just be like "aww babe you can act nice and be YOURSELF whenever you're alone with me... Don't worry I won't tell your friends, You can still act like a badass around them"... she will get the hint.
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Someone Much cooler
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
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What exactly is she doing/saying?Fela Kuti said:
i'm paraphrasing here:Francisco d'Anconia said:
"you're lucky to have me"
"i don't love you that much anyway"
"my inbox is filled with your messages. i think i'm getting sick of it."
all were said in a joking tone though. but still..
MooseGod
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and I would reply "Thanks, I love me too."
Francisco d'Anconia
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"you're lucky to have me"Fela Kuti said:
Francisco: "Perhaps, but you've always been luckier than me."
"i don't love you that much anyway"
Francisco: "I know... You worship me, there's a difference y'know.."
"my inbox is filled with your messages. i think i'm getting sick of it."
Francisco: "Those aren't technically my messages, I submitted your email addy to the 'Amputee Midget Love' forum.
Don't take what she says personally, it's just playful flirting; play along.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Randallpink83
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kick her in the man nuts....:trouble:Fela Kuti said:
maybe you just can't handle this girl???
Try fvcking her younger sister... that always works for me. :woo: :cheer: :rockon:
Randallpink83
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....are you reading the same thread we all are?MooseGod said:My main one used to be when she'd tell me she loved me...
and I would reply "Thanks, I love me too."
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Just depends on what you like in a girl. In your case, it seems you don't like it, so try the things that have been provided in this thread and see if you get results you like.Fela Kuti said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
The thing is if c/f is a part of her nature (she was that way before they started dating) it may be a bit difficult if he wants her to change. Now, if he agrees to work on his insecurities if she agrees to tone down the c/f....Ace of Flames said: