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Don Juan
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
1-4 are agreeable. Everything after that is for the crowd that's mistaken whatever is in the dumpster for 4 star dining
It is A.I image, obvs, but I have the estimated weights of each picture if you'd like to know.4 is too chunky. 3 is nice, but there is fear that it could turn into 4 rather easily. I prefer the wider hips of 2 vs. 1, although the difference is
"flip a coin".
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She'll be a 7 after two years.1-5 but 4 is my fav
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And yet irl when a Girl 1 walks into a room all men look over. And even more so for the Girl Zero that's not pictured here.4 is way too fat.
3 is pushing it a bit too.
1 is too thin
2 is where its at.
You are right, 1 is good too. I take it back.And yet irl when a Girl 1 walks into a room all men look over. And even more so for the Girl Zero that's not pictured here.
I don't know why men lie online about wanting fatter women than they really do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Capt AhabOK, who's the one guy that voted for #7, LOL?
Then add the fact we're all targeting under 35s...or even under 30s.So 90% of us are attracted to women that have 20-25% body fat(#2  on chart) which make up about 40% of the population.
That's about 1 woman for every 2.25 men. Makes more sense why it's so tough out there.
Well off. Well off mate. Its only 6%, that's 1 in 17 American women. And it doesn't mean she's automatically hot remember (what about her facial attractiveness, character, personality, habits, IQ, loyalty, shared interests etc). And most of them (or a huge chunk of them) are already taken.So 90% of us are attracted to women that have 20-25% body fat(#2  on chart) which make up about 40% of the population.
That's about 1 woman for every 2.25 men. Makes more sense why it's so tough out there.
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.