"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What body shape in this lineup are you most attracted too?

Which?

  • 1

    Votes: 5 33.3%
  • 2

    Votes: 8 53.3%
  • 3

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • 4

    Votes: 1 6.7%
  • 5

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 6

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 7

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    15
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cheeky_James

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7 all the way bro !
more cushion for the pushin’ :rofl:

nah but seriously, 1-4 obviously would be preference for me.

so what’s the punchline here.. drop the bad stats brother . :eek:
 

MatureDJ

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4 is too chunky. 3 is nice, but there is fear that it could turn into 4 rather easily. I prefer the wider hips of 2 vs. 1, although the difference is
"flip a coin".
 
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4 is too chunky. 3 is nice, but there is fear that it could turn into 4 rather easily. I prefer the wider hips of 2 vs. 1, although the difference is
"flip a coin".
It is A.I image, obvs, but I have the estimated weights of each picture if you'd like to know.

1. 5ft4 / 108-114lbs
2. 5ft5 / 115-122lbs
3. 5ft4 / 124-128lbs
4. 5ft4 / 143-150lbs
5. 5ft4 / 173-180lbs
6. 5ft4 / 215-235lbs
7. 5ft5 / 280-300lbs
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Westminster

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I've voted for number 2 but potentially 1 to 4 are all good. 5 is too big for me. 6 and 7 are way to big, Quite frankly, I wouldn't be able to get aroused if faced by either of them.
 

BadBoy89

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4 is way too fat.

3 is pushing it a bit too.

1 is too thin

2 is where its at.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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UK manc

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4 is way too fat.

3 is pushing it a bit too.

1 is too thin

2 is where its at.
And yet irl when a Girl 1 walks into a room all men look over. And even more so for the Girl Zero that's not pictured here.

I don't know why men lie online about wanting fatter women than they really do.
 

BadBoy89

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And yet irl when a Girl 1 walks into a room all men look over. And even more so for the Girl Zero that's not pictured here.

I don't know why men lie online about wanting fatter women than they really do.
You are right, 1 is good too. I take it back.
 
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