sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Me'Shell Ndegeocello - Come Smoke My Herb
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What are you listening to?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
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"Reach for The Sky" --Social Distortion (from new album "Sex, Love and Rock N' Roll", if you like rock you should definately get this album)
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Clannad-Cletic moods. (i'm pretty peeved at the moment)
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bump.
3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jakethasnake
Master Don Juan
- Joined
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- Messages
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The Killers - Mr. Brightside
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces
(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)
And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).
Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches.
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces
(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)
And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).
Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches.
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2003
- Messages
- 763
- Reaction score
- 4
- Age
- 40
Right at this moment......godsmack.
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
soul wax- compute
arcade fire-rebellion (lies)
talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
arcade fire-rebellion (lies)
talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
heee heeee heeee
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Tool - Pu**** (live) - The greatest song ever created
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Juelz Santana and Camron - Santana's Town
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Here's my "Morning Lineup" I listen to before going to class every morning:
Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster
Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time
Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster
Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Killers CD's pretty good
... but I don't have it.
Current top 3:
The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.
Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.
Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
... but I don't have it.
Current top 3:
The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.
Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.
Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
Re: An alltime favourite...
But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
Holy ****..no offense dude, but that is HORRIBLE music!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
* "SCOOTER - THE LOGICAL SO"
Laterz...
But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
Disconnect
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Scooter has some very nice tracks - though their last album is crap, sorry to say, since they are the ones that introduced me to the entire techno genre when I was 8
Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
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GlutusMaximus86
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I agree with what other people said The Killers album is awesome. Anyway right now I'm listening to:
Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac
Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac
Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.