"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Yeah he bootlegged himself..

Lol...Thats sad...At one point Nas was trying to bring him out, and then he even dissed Camron for Nas, and now Nas forgets about him and doesnt even try to get a CD out for him, lol....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Litening to: "Enrique Iglesias - Hero (original version)"
 

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the best heavy metal album

has songs by queen, nickelback, black sabeth, iron maiden, motor head, deep purple and others

1 of the best songso n the cd is war pigs by black sabeth

what is the point of this thread thou? its not like its any use to any one because i dont think any one is going to sit down and look at what music people listen to for an hour, but if thats what you want to do, well have fun anyway.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ Shadow - Giving Up The Ghost
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
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what is the point of this thread thou? its not like its any use to any one because i dont think any one is going to sit down and look at what music people listen to for an hour, but if thats what you want to do, well have fun anyway. [/B]
I do, it helps me pick new music to listen to. Hence, why i bumped it up from the depths......
 

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^Agreed.

I'd upload alot of my songs but I don't have the time right now.

Ludacris-"Large Amounts"-Red-Light District.
 

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yea whats goin down right now I'm checking out that new Cam album. thats cam'ron for those who don't know.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by tonystoneNYC
yea whats goin down right now I'm checking out that new Cam album. thats cam'ron for those who don't know.
It was worth waiting for...
 

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Madonna - I'm So Stupid
 

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Westlife_-_I_Wanna_Grow_Old_With_You

Brian Mcfaden - Real To Me

Eminem-Just_Lose_it

simple_plan-id_do_anything
 

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Lumidee - Never leave you.
Damien Rice - Cannonball.
 
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Morbid Angel - Suffocation

not really something for candlelit stufs with panuni tho' :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
I do, it helps me pick new music to listen to. Hence, why i bumped it up from the depths......
fair enough
 

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"Simple Plan - Jump"
 

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Crosby Stills Nash and Young- Carry on

Classic rock rocks!
 

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Brian Mcfaden - Real To Me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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