sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Me'Shell Ndegeocello - Come Smoke My Herb
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What are you listening to?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
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"Reach for The Sky" --Social Distortion (from new album "Sex, Love and Rock N' Roll", if you like rock you should definately get this album)
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Clannad-Cletic moods. (i'm pretty peeved at the moment)
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bump.
3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jakethasnake
Master Don Juan
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The Killers - Mr. Brightside
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces
(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)
And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).
Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches.
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces
(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)
And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).
Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches.
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
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- Messages
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- Reaction score
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- Age
- 40
Right at this moment......godsmack.
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
soul wax- compute
arcade fire-rebellion (lies)
talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
arcade fire-rebellion (lies)
talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
heee heeee heeee
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Tool - Pu**** (live) - The greatest song ever created
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Juelz Santana and Camron - Santana's Town
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Here's my "Morning Lineup" I listen to before going to class every morning:
Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster
Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time
Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster
Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Killers CD's pretty good
... but I don't have it.
Current top 3:
The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.
Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.
Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
... but I don't have it.
Current top 3:
The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.
Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.
Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
Re: An alltime favourite...
But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
Holy ****..no offense dude, but that is HORRIBLE music!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
* "SCOOTER - THE LOGICAL SO"
Laterz...
But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
Disconnect
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Scooter has some very nice tracks - though their last album is crap, sorry to say, since they are the ones that introduced me to the entire techno genre when I was 8
Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
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GlutusMaximus86
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I agree with what other people said The Killers album is awesome. Anyway right now I'm listening to:
Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac
Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac
Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.