"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are you listening to?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Reach for The Sky" --Social Distortion (from new album "Sex, Love and Rock N' Roll", if you like rock you should definately get this album)
 

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Clannad-Cletic moods. (i'm pretty peeved at the moment)
 

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Westlife - I Wanna Grow Old With You

Westlife - I Lay My Love On You

Westlife - Bop Bop Baby

These should be listened to when you're in love ;)
 

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Bump.

3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Killers - Mr. Brightside
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces

(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)


And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).


Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches. :p
 

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Right at this moment......godsmack.

IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE:D
 

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soul wax- compute

arcade fire-rebellion (lies)

talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tool - Pu**** (live) - The greatest song ever created
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
 

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An alltime favourite...

* "SCOOTER - THE LOGICAL SO"


Laterz...;)
 

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Juelz Santana and Camron - Santana's Town
 

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Here's my "Morning Lineup" I listen to before going to class every morning:

Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster

Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Hot Fuss" by The Killers is a spectacular listen.
 

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Killers CD's pretty good

... but I don't have it.

Current top 3:

The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.

Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.

Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
 

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Re: An alltime favourite...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
* "SCOOTER - THE LOGICAL SO"


Laterz...;)
Holy ****..no offense dude, but that is HORRIBLE music!

But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
 

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Scooter has some very nice tracks - though their last album is crap, sorry to say, since they are the ones that introduced me to the entire techno genre when I was 8 :)

Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
 
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I agree with what other people said The Killers album is awesome. Anyway right now I'm listening to:

Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac

Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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