sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Me'Shell Ndegeocello - Come Smoke My Herb
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What are you listening to?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
- Joined
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"Reach for The Sky" --Social Distortion (from new album "Sex, Love and Rock N' Roll", if you like rock you should definately get this album)
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Clannad-Cletic moods. (i'm pretty peeved at the moment)
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bump.
3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
jakethasnake
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 13, 2001
- Messages
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- Reaction score
- 5
The Killers - Mr. Brightside
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces
(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)
And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).
Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches.
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces
(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)
And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).
Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches.
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2003
- Messages
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- Reaction score
- 4
- Age
- 40
Right at this moment......godsmack.
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
soul wax- compute
arcade fire-rebellion (lies)
talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
arcade fire-rebellion (lies)
talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
heee heeee heeee
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Tool - Pu**** (live) - The greatest song ever created
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Juelz Santana and Camron - Santana's Town
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Here's my "Morning Lineup" I listen to before going to class every morning:
Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster
Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time
Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster
Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Killers CD's pretty good
... but I don't have it.
Current top 3:
The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.
Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.
Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
... but I don't have it.
Current top 3:
The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.
Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.
Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
Re: An alltime favourite...
But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
Holy ****..no offense dude, but that is HORRIBLE music!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
* "SCOOTER - THE LOGICAL SO"
Laterz...
But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
Disconnect
Master Don Juan
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Scooter has some very nice tracks - though their last album is crap, sorry to say, since they are the ones that introduced me to the entire techno genre when I was 8
Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
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GlutusMaximus86
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I agree with what other people said The Killers album is awesome. Anyway right now I'm listening to:
Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac
Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac
Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.