sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Me'Shell Ndegeocello - Come Smoke My Herb
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What are you listening to?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
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"Reach for The Sky" --Social Distortion (from new album "Sex, Love and Rock N' Roll", if you like rock you should definately get this album)
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Clannad-Cletic moods. (i'm pretty peeved at the moment)
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bump.
3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
3 doors down - kryptonite.
3 doors down - by my side (best one)
Hanson - penny and me.
Default - deny.
Brian Adams - summer of 69.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
jakethasnake
Master Don Juan
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The Killers - Mr. Brightside
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces
(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)
And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).
Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches.
Interpol - Slow Hands
Iron Butterfly - We All Die Young (from 'Rockstar' soundtrack)
Velvet Revolver - Fall To Pieces
(AMAZING! It's almost like some classic Guns N' Roses, except with better vocals - Scott Weiland is the man, despite being a junkie! LOL.)
And... drumroll... Ken Oak. www.kenoak.net - this dude is very talented singer-songwriter - in the vein of John Mayer (they don't have similar voices, though).
Snacky Chan. www.chanhiphop.com. Betta recognize the dog-breath kimchi muthafuka, biatches.
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
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- Reaction score
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- Age
- 40
Right at this moment......godsmack.
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII STAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND ALOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
soul wax- compute
arcade fire-rebellion (lies)
talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
arcade fire-rebellion (lies)
talking heads-this must be the place (naive melody)
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
heee heeee heeee
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Tool - Pu**** (live) - The greatest song ever created
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
Led Zepplin - How many more times
Pink Floyd - Green is the Colour
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Juelz Santana and Camron - Santana's Town
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Here's my "Morning Lineup" I listen to before going to class every morning:
Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster
Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time
Def Leopard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
Green Day - Burnout
Stroke 9: Kick Some Ass
Incubus - Out from Under
Geto Boys - Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangster
Gets me ready to face this mortal coil every time
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Killers CD's pretty good
... but I don't have it.
Current top 3:
The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.
Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.
Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
... but I don't have it.
Current top 3:
The Joy of Sing-Sing. Ultra-melodic, trip-hoppy dream pop bliss featuring x-Lush guitarist Emma Anderson.
Aveo: Battery. Catchy Smiths/early Cure-ish music with good, dryly humorous (and not AFC) lyrics.
Echo & the Bunnymen: Ocean Rain. I will never tire of this beautiful, impressionistic, darkly romantic music.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
Re: An alltime favourite...
But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
Holy ****..no offense dude, but that is HORRIBLE music!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
* "SCOOTER - THE LOGICAL SO"
Laterz...
But I'm not one for Trance shyt..so there you go.
Disconnect
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Scooter has some very nice tracks - though their last album is crap, sorry to say, since they are the ones that introduced me to the entire techno genre when I was 8
Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
Massive Attack - Angel
Prodigy - Action Radar
A Perfect Circle - Judith (Renholder's mix)
Lange Feat Sky - Drifting Away
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GlutusMaximus86
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I agree with what other people said The Killers album is awesome. Anyway right now I'm listening to:
Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac
Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
Tusk - Fleetwood Mac
Big Love (Live) - Fleetwood Mac
Fleetwood Mac is probably considered a girl band by most but oh well. Both me and my dad have their greatest hits album, so I guess that means were both "girly men".
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.