What are you guys’ standards like?

[TheCharmingGuy]

Hey, I was wondering about what guys’ standards for women are these days. Mine are pretty basic.

1. At least a 7/10
2. Within 3 years of my age
3. Not afraid to have sex (although I understand waiting until after a few dates, etc.)
4. Not a jerk, idiot, or Karen
5. Not possessive
6. Sense of humor
7. Not super long distance

And that’s about it! Once again, these are pretty basic, but I don’t think I’m super picky. Is there anything you guys disagree with, or something you would add? Any strange requirements that you have for women? Strangest requirement that you’ve ever heard of? Is there any quality in a woman that makes you immediately say “no”? Comment down below because I’m curious.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Younger than 25
Attractive
Not a psycho
Lives close by

 

[EyeBRollin]

No children
Younger than 30
NYC Metro Area
6/10 (Cute) or higher
Less than 150 lbs
No smoking or drugs

 

[Barrister]

6+/10 (to date); 7.5+/10 (long term plate/LTR)
Non-smoker
Relatively fit (bonus points if physically active)
Less than 30 miles from me
Non-Cluster B personality
Relatively intelligent; not an idiot
My age or younger (less than 34)

I will avoid any woman who either hates children or is very bad with children. Not because I want to necessarily have any more kids but because this typically hints at major red flags personality wise.

 

[TheCharmingGuy]

Oh yeah I forgot to add no smoke/weed or drugs or addiction to any alcohol because I don’t really have time for that.

 

[derby1]

I know we don't advocate LTR's with single moms, But i'd like to confirm if a woman has no children past 28, shes a fully fledged empty vessel Narc.

I've never met a childless woman who's LTR material in her 30s.

Also any mention of D.V from past male partners, (plot twist : shes the problem)

 

[Georgepithyou]

No tattoos
Good conversationalist
Extroverted
Wears dresses or skirts (doesn't dress like a man)
Kind and nurturing
Long hair
Fit or atleast thin
Good relationship with her father
Knows basic domestic skills like cooking and cleaning

 

[Velasco]

pretty face/smile
olive skin
gets my sense of humor
under 5'7"
flexible
no stomach rolls / hard abs
big jiggly ass

 

[Desdinova]

If she's not a fvck n' toss, then she's required to have these:

- Age 23 or under
- Less than 4 sexual partners
- No tattoos
- No orbiters
- No bad habits (drugs, alcohol, spending)
- No kids
- Feminine
- Submissive
- Willing to match my demand for loyalty and respect

That's already a high demand list in comparison to all the other trashy bytches walking around. If she can't meet any of that, then she's not long term material.

Met my GF when she was 20. She pursued me for two years. I've now been with her for five. All of the above requirements have led to success.

 

[TheProspect]

For an LTR/mother/wife?

Two things come to mind, while both are really vague, they pretty much encompass everything:
1. Someone whose company I would enjoy (and benefits me) beyond just sex.
2. Someone I wouldn't mind if my future daughter (if I had one) grew up to emulate.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Oh yeah I forgot to add no smoke/weed or drugs or addiction to any alcohol because I don’t really have time for that.

How would that even effect you?

 

[zinc4]

Hey, I was wondering about what guys’ standards for women are these days. Mine are pretty basic.

1. At least a 7/10
2. Within 3 years of my age
3. Not afraid to have sex (although I understand waiting until after a few dates, etc.)
4. Not a jerk, idiot, or Karen
5. Not possessive
6. Sense of humor
7. Not super long distance

And that’s about it! Once again, these are pretty basic, but I don’t think I’m super picky. Is there anything you guys disagree with, or something you would add? Any strange requirements that you have for women? Strangest requirement that you’ve ever heard of? Is there any quality in a woman that makes you immediately say “no”? Comment down below because I’m curious.

For relationship? At least a solid 7 looks wise. No blondes nor black chicks. Takes care of herself diet and health wise. Not a slut. Not a smoker. Not a big drinker. No tatoos.

Is a free thinker and nice person. Two very important but very rare attributes in a woman. I also prefer women who have a religion and believe in something. And no single mothers.

 

[Kotaix]

Good relationship with her father, no children, not a mindless sjw. Must be local

Looks wise she needs to be slim and have a nice smile. I don't really go for relationships with women who are over a 7, they're not worth it

 

[EyeBRollin]

I don't really go for relationships with women who are over a 7, they're not worth it

This is wise. More guys should heed this advice.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

How would that even effect you?

Is that a serious question?

 

[lost_blackbird]

I've sat here for ten minutes thinking about this and I can't really come up with anything.
I don't think I've ever really chosen a female, nor pursued one. I'm so fvcking sh1t at this stuff.

 

[Sir FB]

How would that even effect you?

Addiction to drugs and alcohol devastates the lives of everyone in relationship with the addict. BTDT

 

[firstbornunicorn]

For wife material, this is checklist I run them through.

It's not by order of importance, it's all required.

• Cute and feminine
• Loyal
• Kind
• Not insecure
• Smart
  • Working on master’s or Phd
  • Ambitious
• Very fit, similar level to me
  • Into some type of sport: climbing, running, cycling, swimming, etc
• Likes the outdoors, camping, hikes, etc
• Good family relationships
  • Good relationship with her dad
• Plays a musical instrument
• Not constantly on her phone or social media
• Doesn’t take relationship or politics advice from tiktok
• “Low maintenance”
• 4-8 years younger
• No tattoos.
• No drugs
• No smoking
• No snus
• Eats clean
• Little or no alcohol
• Wants kids

 

[Romanemp22]

Very good looking
Lives close
Submissive and respectfull
Knows how to fvck and cook too
Not a psycho b1tch

Thats for ltr, if it's for just fvcking than it's only good looking and not a psycho.

 

[Grinderman]

I don't really go for relationships with women who are over a 7, they're not worth it

Can you elaborate on this my good man? This makes no sense to me whatsoever. From my experience her looks don't determine whether she was brought up to have values and integrity.

This is wise. More guys should heed this advice.

I don't get your mentality here nor your advice that other guys should only date (ltr) 6's. Would you mind elaborating on your perspective here my good man.