What are you guys’ standards like?

[xplt]

- feminine
- good sense of humor
- positive attitude
- can reflect her own behavior and is able to take responsibility for it
- good relationship with her family
- no kids
- not materialistic
- intelligent
- no or no excessive social media user
- has to have hobbies or the ability to spend productive time on her own
- nurturing, kind and supportive
- sporty

These are only points that came to my mind spontaneous, there are more must haves...

 

[Kotaix]

So basically your "logic" is coming from your own (irrationality) insecurity.

if she is a woman with values, principles and strong boundaries this won't matter.

The women you're describing are rarer than hen's teeth and they'll invariably go for very high value men, because they can.

I have my insecurities, sure, but my stance here comes more from being jaded. I've met 9s with so-called boundaries and principles. They will usually let me kiss them and touch the vagene before their principles kick in and they tell me they have a boyfriend. And these are worthwhile women that many men would be very happy with.

Having a higher smv than your woman is also the ultimate dread game. If you're willing to walk at any moment then you won't stand up for domineering behavior.