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What are you guys’ standards like?

TheCharmingGuy

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Hey, I was wondering about what guys’ standards for women are these days. Mine are pretty basic.

1. At least a 7/10
2. Within 3 years of my age
3. Not afraid to have sex (although I understand waiting until after a few dates, etc.)
4. Not a jerk, idiot, or Karen
5. Not possessive
6. Sense of humor
7. Not super long distance


And that’s about it! Once again, these are pretty basic, but I don’t think I’m super picky. Is there anything you guys disagree with, or something you would add? Any strange requirements that you have for women? Strangest requirement that you’ve ever heard of? Is there any quality in a woman that makes you immediately say “no”? Comment down below because I’m curious.
 

FlexpertHamilton

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Younger than 25
Attractive
Not a psycho
Lives close by
 

Barrister

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6+/10 (to date); 7.5+/10 (long term plate/LTR)
Non-smoker
Relatively fit (bonus points if physically active)
Less than 30 miles from me
Non-Cluster B personality
Relatively intelligent; not an idiot
My age or younger (less than 34)

I will avoid any woman who either hates children or is very bad with children. Not because I want to necessarily have any more kids but because this typically hints at major red flags personality wise.
 

TheCharmingGuy

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Oh yeah I forgot to add no smoke/weed or drugs or addiction to any alcohol because I don’t really have time for that.
 

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derby1

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I know we don't advocate LTR's with single moms, But i'd like to confirm if a woman has no children past 28, shes a fully fledged empty vessel Narc.

I've never met a childless woman who's LTR material in her 30s.

Also any mention of D.V from past male partners, (plot twist : shes the problem)
 

Georgepithyou

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No tattoos
Good conversationalist
Extroverted
Wears dresses or skirts (doesn't dress like a man)
Kind and nurturing
Long hair
Fit or atleast thin
Good relationship with her father
Knows basic domestic skills like cooking and cleaning
 

Velasco

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pretty face/smile
olive skin
gets my sense of humor
under 5'7"
flexible
no stomach rolls / hard abs
big jiggly ass
 

Desdinova

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If she's not a fvck n' toss, then she's required to have these:

- Age 23 or under
- Less than 4 sexual partners
- No tattoos
- No orbiters
- No bad habits (drugs, alcohol, spending)
- No kids
- Feminine
- Submissive
- Willing to match my demand for loyalty and respect

That's already a high demand list in comparison to all the other trashy bytches walking around. If she can't meet any of that, then she's not long term material.

Met my GF when she was 20. She pursued me for two years. I've now been with her for five. All of the above requirements have led to success.
 

TheProspect

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For an LTR/mother/wife?

Two things come to mind, while both are really vague, they pretty much encompass everything:
1. Someone whose company I would enjoy (and benefits me) beyond just sex.
2. Someone I wouldn't mind if my future daughter (if I had one) grew up to emulate.
 

zinc4

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Hey, I was wondering about what guys’ standards for women are these days. Mine are pretty basic.

1. At least a 7/10
2. Within 3 years of my age
3. Not afraid to have sex (although I understand waiting until after a few dates, etc.)
4. Not a jerk, idiot, or Karen
5. Not possessive
6. Sense of humor
7. Not super long distance


And that’s about it! Once again, these are pretty basic, but I don’t think I’m super picky. Is there anything you guys disagree with, or something you would add? Any strange requirements that you have for women? Strangest requirement that you’ve ever heard of? Is there any quality in a woman that makes you immediately say “no”? Comment down below because I’m curious.

For relationship? At least a solid 7 looks wise. No blondes nor black chicks. Takes care of herself diet and health wise. Not a slut. Not a smoker. Not a big drinker. No tatoos.

Is a free thinker and nice person. Two very important but very rare attributes in a woman. I also prefer women who have a religion and believe in something. And no single mothers.
 
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Kotaix

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Good relationship with her father, no children, not a mindless sjw. Must be local

Looks wise she needs to be slim and have a nice smile. I don't really go for relationships with women who are over a 7, they're not worth it
 

Hank Moody

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1. HB7 - HB8
2. 25-34 years old
3. Submissive
4. Self-Sufficient
5. Feminine Energy
6. Great Relationship with her Family
7. Isn't super into politics/social issues
8. Non-Smoker
9. Celebrates traditional gender roles
10. Isn't super sexually experienced
 

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mikedee

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hb8 and above
super skinny with a nice thigh gap
long hair, nails, nice teeth
feminine
ideally Slavic
non-smoker/heavy drinker
not super sexually experienced (a good one @Hank Moody)
fun to be with, intelligent
under 26-27
no children
no big ugly tattoos
 

lost_blackbird

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I've sat here for ten minutes thinking about this and I can't really come up with anything.
I don't think I've ever really chosen a female, nor pursued one. I'm so fvcking sh1t at this stuff.
 
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