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firstbornunicorn

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For wife material, this is checklist I run them through.

It's not by order of importance, it's all required.
  • Cute and feminine
  • Loyal
  • Kind
  • Not insecure
  • Smart
    • Working on master’s or Phd
    • Ambitious
  • Very fit, similar level to me
    • Into some type of sport: climbing, running, cycling, swimming, etc
  • Likes the outdoors, camping, hikes, etc
  • Good family relationships
    • Good relationship with her dad
  • Plays a musical instrument
  • Not constantly on her phone or social media
  • Doesn’t take relationship or politics advice from tiktok
  • “Low maintenance”
  • 4-8 years younger
  • No tattoos.
  • No drugs
  • No smoking
  • No snus
  • Eats clean
  • Little or no alcohol
  • Wants kids
 

Romanemp22

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Very good looking
Lives close
Submissive and respectfull
Knows how to fvck and cook too
Not a psycho b1tch

Thats for ltr, if it's for just fvcking than it's only good looking and not a psycho.
 

Grinderman

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I don't really go for relationships with women who are over a 7, they're not worth it
Can you elaborate on this my good man? This makes no sense to me whatsoever. From my experience her looks don't determine whether she was brought up to have values and integrity.

This is wise. More guys should heed this advice.
I don't get your mentality here nor your advice that other guys should only date (ltr) 6's. Would you mind elaborating on your perspective here my good man.
 

Jake_Gyllenhaal69

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Under 28
Non smoker
Not obese or fat, don’t mind some chubbiness though
Non black
No kids
Middle class or higher
 

FlexpertHamilton

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Addiction to drugs and alcohol devastates the lives of everyone in relationship with the addict. BTDT
I guess I didn't realize we were only taking about serious LTRs here.

Also you can be a functional addict.
 

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EyeBRollin

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I don't get your mentality here nor your advice that other guys should only date (ltr) 6's. Would you mind elaborating on your perspective here my good man.
Women HB8+ have no development in personal skills. They’ve spent their whole lives coasting on beauty. Combine that with 99% of men trying to get with her for the rest of your life. That is recipe for at best a miserable relationship. Find a chick that’s merely “cute,” physically fit, and can dress. She will look almost as good and have twice the character.
 

mikedee

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Women HB8+ have no development in personal skills. They’ve spent their whole lives coasting on beauty. Combine that with 99% of men trying to get with her for the rest of your life. That is recipe for at best a miserable relationship. Find a chick that’s merely “cute,” physically fit, and can dress. She will look almost as good and have twice the character.
Wtf?? Are you serious?
 

firstbornunicorn

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Women HB8+ have no development in personal skills. They’ve spent their whole lives coasting on beauty. Combine that with 99% of men trying to get with her for the rest of your life. That is recipe for at best a miserable relationship. Find a chick that’s merely “cute,” physically fit, and can dress. She will look almost as good and have twice the character.
It's an interesting heuristic that works for low-tier and trashy women, but there are hb8+ that aren't like this. The ones I know are from wealthier families with very good relationships with their parents.
 

EyeBRollin

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It's an interesting heuristic that works for low-tier and trashy women, but there are hb8+ that aren't like this. The ones I know are from wealthier families with very good relationships with their parents.
Relationship with parents doesn’t protect HB8+ from the privileges that come with their beauty. I don’t know why guys think HB8+ can be reformed or that they will ever be as submissive or cooperative as less attractive women. That goes against female hypergamy. If you’re Chris Hemsworth or Michael B. Jordan knock yourself out with the baddies. The rest of y’all are deluding yourselves.
 

TheNewStyle123

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Women HB8+ have no development in personal skills. They’ve spent their whole lives coasting on beauty. Combine that with 99% of men trying to get with her for the rest of your life. That is recipe for at best a miserable relationship. Find a chick that’s merely “cute,” physically fit, and can dress. She will look almost as good and have twice the character.
I fully endorse this notion.
 

Hank Moody

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"The pretentious girl in the floppy hat just eyefvcked the sh!t out of me."

I love this movie.

I love it when youz guys get into hours-long, philosophical debates about this stuff. Keep going.
 

2Rocky

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Deal Breakers
Cigarette smoker
Drug use (even Recreational)
Psychiatric history or medication including Eating disorders
Prior arrests or convictions
Alcohol abuse requiring treatment
Evidence of lying to me
Withholding of Sex as a punishment
Animal Rights or Extreme environmentalist
Debts in collections-Poor credit
Extreme mood swings
Desire for breast implants (pre existing is ok)
Unable to get along with my children and family
Seeks confrontations
Chronic pain
Wants to have (more) children or has children under 10 yo.
Married twice or more
Overweight by more than 20 pounds
Under 5 feet tall. Over 6’ 2”
High maintenance in appearance (plastic surgery)
History of Obesity

Must Haves
A frequent desire and willingness for sex
A positive attitude
A career direction and demonstrated ability to keep a job.
Athletic hobbies
A sense of adventure
Enjoys camping and outdoors
A social circle of her own as well and be willing to be in my social circle
Able to socialize with friends and strangers alike
Enjoy fine dining
Likes to dance
Likes animals but not crazy
Enjoys travel and the act of travelling
Physically affectionate
Encouraging and optimistic
Romantic
Can connect with children and my family
Intelligent and values learning
Cares about her appearance
Cares about her health
 

Hank Moody

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Deal Breakers
Cigarette smoker
Drug use (even Recreational)
Psychiatric history or medication including Eating disorders
Prior arrests or convictions
Alcohol abuse requiring treatment
Evidence of lying to me
Withholding of Sex as a punishment
Animal Rights or Extreme environmentalist
Debts in collections-Poor credit
Extreme mood swings
Desire for breast implants (pre existing is ok)
Unable to get along with my children and family
Seeks confrontations
Chronic pain
Wants to have (more) children or has children under 10 yo.
Married twice or more
Overweight by more than 20 pounds
Under 5 feet tall. Over 6’ 2”
High maintenance in appearance (plastic surgery)
History of Obesity

Must Haves
A frequent desire and willingness for sex
A positive attitude
A career direction and demonstrated ability to keep a job.
Athletic hobbies
A sense of adventure
Enjoys camping and outdoors
A social circle of her own as well and be willing to be in my social circle
Able to socialize with friends and strangers alike
Enjoy fine dining
Likes to dance
Likes animals but not crazy
Enjoys travel and the act of travelling
Physically affectionate
Encouraging and optimistic
Romantic
Can connect with children and my family
Intelligent and values learning
Cares about her appearance
Cares about her health
You put a lot of thought into this, bro. I like it.
 

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mikedee

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Deal Breakers
Cigarette smoker
Drug use (even Recreational)
Psychiatric history or medication including Eating disorders
Prior arrests or convictions
Alcohol abuse requiring treatment
Evidence of lying to me
Withholding of Sex as a punishment
Animal Rights or Extreme environmentalist
Debts in collections-Poor credit
Extreme mood swings
Desire for breast implants (pre existing is ok)
Unable to get along with my children and family
Seeks confrontations
Chronic pain
Wants to have (more) children or has children under 10 yo.
Married twice or more
Overweight by more than 20 pounds
Under 5 feet tall. Over 6’ 2”
High maintenance in appearance (plastic surgery)
History of Obesity

Must Haves
A frequent desire and willingness for sex
A positive attitude
A career direction and demonstrated ability to keep a job.
Athletic hobbies
A sense of adventure
Enjoys camping and outdoors
A social circle of her own as well and be willing to be in my social circle
Able to socialize with friends and strangers alike
Enjoy fine dining
Likes to dance
Likes animals but not crazy
Enjoys travel and the act of travelling
Physically affectionate
Encouraging and optimistic
Romantic
Can connect with children and my family
Intelligent and values learning
Cares about her appearance
Cares about her health
Man, hope you're not that guy who complain that women are unrealistic and have high standards.. it looks like you're gonna stay single for a while, you'd better buy a sex doll. I consider myself to be a super picky guy, but look at your list, it's ridiculous, deal breakers + must haves...
At least you know what you want, that's a good thing.
 

2Rocky

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Man, hope you're not that guy who complain that women are unrealistic and have high standards.. it looks like you're gonna stay single for a while, you'd better buy a sex doll. I consider myself to be a super picky guy, but look at your list, it's ridiculous, deal breakers + must haves...
At least you know what you want, that's a good thing.
I do have a woman who ticks EVERY ONE of those boxes...
 

mikedee

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Relationship with parents doesn’t protect HB8+ from the privileges that come with their beauty. I don’t know why guys think HB8+ can be reformed or that they will ever be as submissive or cooperative as less attractive women. That goes against female hypergamy. If you’re Chris Hemsworth or Michael B. Jordan knock yourself out with the baddies. The rest of y’all are deluding yourselves.
100% disagree. Saying that HB8+ are only focused on beauty and have no development in personal skills is a huge and disrespectful generalization, looks like you haven't met a lot of HB8+ to say something like that. It seems that you are settle for less because you are afraid that you girl dump you for another guy, I smell insecurity. I think you have better chance to get dump by a hb7- than a hb8+ because most guys are too scared to approach hot chicks. Hot chicks are equally submissive, they might be more difficult to get, but if you do the job well they are going to submit. I've been with 8s and above all my life, they were all VERY submissive. Hot girls are more difficult to get with of course, but once you get them, there are no difference between them and lower quality women.
Personally I would NEVER settle for less, what you say doesn't make sense to me.
 
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