“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What are the minimum things I should be doing on First dates

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Okay the girl I went on a date with yesterday just told me that I'm hot but long term plans do not align. I asked her what she was looking for and she said she had no idea so I told her that she's being silly and good luck lol.
 
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OP the problem isn't the cities, the problem is you have issues planning dates so they flow properly...do you mean to tell me there is NOTHING you could be doing in any of those areas that isn't 15 minutes away? No parks, cool areas to check out, minigolf, etc you could do prior to going to get a drink?

If you want to know where you can start doing better it starts with your plan of action and date flow.

I am starting to think the issue you are having on dates is that you are simply boring.
It's Houston, anywhere you go is a 20 minute drive and I drive a huge lifted Truck so going anywhere downtown is risky parking wise.
 

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It's Houston, anywhere you go is a 20 minute drive and I drive a huge lifted Truck so going anywhere downtown is risky parking wise.
Then don't go downtown. I am quite sure there are plenty of places in every suburb around to do tons of things. It's your job to go find out where and what they are.

This is the type of stuff that is well within your control to be 100% on top of.
 

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It's Houston, anywhere you go is a 20 minute drive and I drive a huge lifted Truck so going anywhere downtown is risky parking wise.
get a cheap small party car. if it gets a dent you don't care. bang around in it and keep the truck safe for road trips and other stuff.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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So went out with this one girl tonight, we went to three different venues, she grabbed my ass when we hugged and it seemed liked she had fun lol.
 

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I'm not sure if this has been mentioned, but perhaps consider going on dates that include an activity that minimize the potential for too much talking and awkward moments. I personally would have a very hard time talking to someone I barely know for 2 hours, let alone a woman, and I could just see how for me that would ruin any chances of seeing that woman again. Mini golfing, bowling, pool, hiking, biking, etc.
 

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At least a kiss close or better yet, go in for a kiss in the middle of the date if you feel like you are vibing.
 
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