"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are the minimum things I should be doing on First dates

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Okay the girl I went on a date with yesterday just told me that I'm hot but long term plans do not align. I asked her what she was looking for and she said she had no idea so I told her that she's being silly and good luck lol.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
OP the problem isn't the cities, the problem is you have issues planning dates so they flow properly...do you mean to tell me there is NOTHING you could be doing in any of those areas that isn't 15 minutes away? No parks, cool areas to check out, minigolf, etc you could do prior to going to get a drink?

If you want to know where you can start doing better it starts with your plan of action and date flow.

I am starting to think the issue you are having on dates is that you are simply boring.
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It's Houston, anywhere you go is a 20 minute drive and I drive a huge lifted Truck so going anywhere downtown is risky parking wise.
 
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Jake_Gyllenhaal69 said:
It's Houston, anywhere you go is a 20 minute drive and I drive a huge lifted Truck so going anywhere downtown is risky parking wise.
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Then don't go downtown. I am quite sure there are plenty of places in every suburb around to do tons of things. It's your job to go find out where and what they are.

This is the type of stuff that is well within your control to be 100% on top of.
 
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Jake_Gyllenhaal69 said:
It's Houston, anywhere you go is a 20 minute drive and I drive a huge lifted Truck so going anywhere downtown is risky parking wise.
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get a cheap small party car. if it gets a dent you don't care. bang around in it and keep the truck safe for road trips and other stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So went out with this one girl tonight, we went to three different venues, she grabbed my ass when we hugged and it seemed liked she had fun lol.
 
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I'm not sure if this has been mentioned, but perhaps consider going on dates that include an activity that minimize the potential for too much talking and awkward moments. I personally would have a very hard time talking to someone I barely know for 2 hours, let alone a woman, and I could just see how for me that would ruin any chances of seeing that woman again. Mini golfing, bowling, pool, hiking, biking, etc.
 
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At least a kiss close or better yet, go in for a kiss in the middle of the date if you feel like you are vibing.
 
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