"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would just get a power rack (with a pull up bar), an adjustable bench, a barbell and 200-350lbs in plates
 

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It'll work out at at least double the cost. That weight set and bench is looking at the maximum budget I'll be able to go to for the forseeable future.
 

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Moneytalks said:
It'll work out at at least double the cost. That weight set and bench is looking at the maximum budget I'll be able to go to for the forseeable future.
suit yourself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In the long run, better to save for a few months and afford the better stuff.

Can you make it to the gym once a week? You can still maintain/get stronger while you save up.

You could of course buy that and save for the power rack seperately.


Your call.
 

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Moneytalks said:
It'll work out at at least double the cost. That weight set and bench is looking at the maximum budget I'll be able to go to for the forseeable future.
How do you figure? (its actually cheaper if your smart about it) Whats your goal? I assume its to build muscle.
 

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Cheaper? The power racks are about the same as that bench and weight set.

Of course, it's also a space thing. I only have my bedroom space to put it in. I can't make it to the gym once a week after the middle of June, which is why I need a weight set. The other problem is that I'm awaiting authorisation from a Naval surgeon to proceed with my selection-it's not serious, I'll pass. Procedure is an arse- so once I'm in 90% of my stuff is going into storage or onto eBay.

I basically want to maintain the muscle I have, and add some more if I can do it without hindering my running skills.
 

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a power rack and bench don't take up any more space than the monstrosity you linked to, with its useless preacher's curl and nearly useless leg extension device.

the power rack w/ pull up bar becomes the immobile piece, while a light adjustable bench can be put exactly where you need it--and if you're short on space, you can turn it sideways in the rack when not in use, thus actually taking up less space.

your space objection is only remotely valid if you have a short ceiling.

so let's put this out in the open. you're perfectly willing to spend $400 for something that WON'T do the job, but unwilling to save up a bit to spend $600-700 on doing it right?

http://www.muscletalk.co.uk/article-home-gym.aspx

and these estimates don't include finding one or more pieces used through classifieds, etc.

Two minutes of searching craiglist and I found someone selling everything listed in the link above (including dip attachment) for $250, 15 minutes away from where I live. too bad my landlord wouldn't appreciate a power rack on the parquet floors.....
 

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That article above is gold, I'm giving it serious consideration when I relocate for work soon. Thanks for the link
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, ditch the all-in-one and get a power rack.

Also, look at ebay. People are always getting rid of benches and weights on there.
 

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So the bench is sh!t, that's all I was looking for :rolleyes:

On the side of a low ceiling, I have a sloping ceiling. In the area that the power rack would have to go, I can't get a wardrobe at 6' to sit flush against the wall.

I'll search around a bit more.

From the article:

A 7x10 foot space would be ideal.
I have about a 6x5 to store things in, and then when i want to use it, my bedroom will be filled right out with it.
 

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I think I may start a homegym in my garage after looking at that article. I constantly find myself skipping workouts due to traveling to the gym, etc. The gym in my hometown isn't open past 8pm either so this would be great if I come back from a trip at 10PM and would like to get a workout in.
 

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Good times. My new boss said I can choose most of my hours to accommodate my training. I have longer to save for training gear.
 

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wheres the barbell?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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