iqqi
Master Don Juan
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Nooby Doo
Don Juan
I have printed this series out and it has helped alot
BUT
Do you have any advic for staying motivated?
Most of the time I dont approach not because I am scared, but because I am lazy and couldnt be bothered. I felt like you touched on this in "boosting mind states" but could you elaborate on this a little more?
I guess what I really need is a swift kick in the ass...
BUT
Do you have any advic for staying motivated?
Most of the time I dont approach not because I am scared, but because I am lazy and couldnt be bothered. I felt like you touched on this in "boosting mind states" but could you elaborate on this a little more?
I guess what I really need is a swift kick in the ass...
trevor2003
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bump this to the top!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
jonny football hero
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Walking Anomaly
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BUMP!!! 
Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
A bump for a friend
I still stand by much of this guide but I wish I could change some parts that I currently disagree with. If there is any lesson here it is that a DJ is always a work in progress!
Glad you enjoyed it bro.
I still stand by much of this guide but I wish I could change some parts that I currently disagree with. If there is any lesson here it is that a DJ is always a work in progress!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Vigilante7
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We all know that there is NOT 1 thread in any forum touching this
(i got this from mASF)
...unbeliebavle, i love the C+F explanations........
(i got this from mASF)
...unbeliebavle, i love the C+F explanations........
Senor... I read WMS when I took up the DJ ways again and it was just really interresting to read it. I didn't pay much attention (i.e learn) much of your strategies but it was interresting to see who you were and your views on life. That and the absolute hilarity of some of your stories. I would like to congratulate you on a great post. Captivating you could say... What I like most is even the least experienced AFC to the gread Don Juan de Cassanova could enjoy this. A post of universal significance! Good job.
wannabejuan
Don Juan
God Bless America!
Thanks for all of your time in writing this. One of the best I have ever read in 2 years. Pure brilillance.!
Thanks for all of your time in writing this. One of the best I have ever read in 2 years. Pure brilillance.!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Zero0ne
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The links at the bottom of each post link to sosuave.com/vbulletin/... instead of sosuave.net/forums/...
Works now.
The links at the bottom of each post link to sosuave.com/vbulletin/... instead of sosuave.net/forums/...
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idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
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Geez, that was third time I read this entire thing.... but not my last.
Thanks for all your effort, Señor Fingers.
Geez, that was third time I read this entire thing.... but not my last.
Thanks for all your effort, Señor Fingers.
This was the first sosuave post i ever read, that started me down the road. Mad props to fingers, and if you havent read it...do it now! The breathing from the diaphagram still puzzles me, i havent been able to do it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.