"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Weapons Of Mass Seduction

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have printed this series out and it has helped alot

BUT

Do you have any advic for staying motivated?

Most of the time I dont approach not because I am scared, but because I am lazy and couldnt be bothered. I felt like you touched on this in "boosting mind states" but could you elaborate on this a little more?

I guess what I really need is a swift kick in the ass...
 
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Nice post Señor Fingers! It can stand along with the DJ bible. Good examples and detailed field reports. Very cool!

You are hereby Knighted a Real DJ.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I suggest reading it twice or more. When I was reading this for a second time i noticed how much I missed at the first time. There are lots of details worth to remember :D
 
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Okay bump
 
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A bump for a friend :)

Originally posted by Paradox
Nice post Señor Fingers! It can stand along with the DJ bible. Good examples and detailed field reports. Very cool!

You are hereby Knighted a Real DJ.
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Glad you enjoyed it bro.

I still stand by much of this guide but I wish I could change some parts that I currently disagree with. If there is any lesson here it is that a DJ is always a work in progress!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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We all know that there is NOT 1 thread in any forum touching this

(i got this from mASF)

...unbeliebavle, i love the C+F explanations........
 
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Senor... I read WMS when I took up the DJ ways again and it was just really interresting to read it. I didn't pay much attention (i.e learn) much of your strategies but it was interresting to see who you were and your views on life. That and the absolute hilarity of some of your stories. I would like to congratulate you on a great post. Captivating you could say... What I like most is even the least experienced AFC to the gread Don Juan de Cassanova could enjoy this. A post of universal significance! Good job.
 
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God Bless America!

Thanks for all of your time in writing this. One of the best I have ever read in 2 years. Pure brilillance.!
 
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All of the following links in Fingers' 2nd post lead to a redirect page. I just joined and would love to read them. Are they located anywhere else?

Thanks.

Example.

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Destroying Social Phobias - Awaken your social self.
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Originally posted by Tatari
All of the following links in Fingers' 2nd post lead to a redirect page. I just joined and would love to read them. Are they located anywhere else?

Thanks.

Example.
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The site shifted servers and messed up links. I'm gonna go through and fix them now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bump.

Geez, that was third time I read this entire thing.... but not my last.

Thanks for all your effort, Señor Fingers.
 
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This was the first sosuave post i ever read, that started me down the road. Mad props to fingers, and if you havent read it...do it now! The breathing from the diaphagram still puzzles me, i havent been able to do it.
 
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This thread is just amazing. I've read through it twice, and im going to read it again.

Nice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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