iqqi
Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Weapons Of Mass Seduction
- Thread starter Señor Fingers
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Superman X
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Nooby Doo
Don Juan
I have printed this series out and it has helped alot
BUT
Do you have any advic for staying motivated?
Most of the time I dont approach not because I am scared, but because I am lazy and couldnt be bothered. I felt like you touched on this in "boosting mind states" but could you elaborate on this a little more?
I guess what I really need is a swift kick in the ass...
BUT
Do you have any advic for staying motivated?
Most of the time I dont approach not because I am scared, but because I am lazy and couldnt be bothered. I felt like you touched on this in "boosting mind states" but could you elaborate on this a little more?
I guess what I really need is a swift kick in the ass...
trevor2003
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bump this to the top!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
jonny football hero
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Walking Anomaly
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BUMP!!! 
Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
A bump for a friend
I still stand by much of this guide but I wish I could change some parts that I currently disagree with. If there is any lesson here it is that a DJ is always a work in progress!
Glad you enjoyed it bro.
I still stand by much of this guide but I wish I could change some parts that I currently disagree with. If there is any lesson here it is that a DJ is always a work in progress!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Vigilante7
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We all know that there is NOT 1 thread in any forum touching this
(i got this from mASF)
...unbeliebavle, i love the C+F explanations........
(i got this from mASF)
...unbeliebavle, i love the C+F explanations........
Senor... I read WMS when I took up the DJ ways again and it was just really interresting to read it. I didn't pay much attention (i.e learn) much of your strategies but it was interresting to see who you were and your views on life. That and the absolute hilarity of some of your stories. I would like to congratulate you on a great post. Captivating you could say... What I like most is even the least experienced AFC to the gread Don Juan de Cassanova could enjoy this. A post of universal significance! Good job.
wannabejuan
Don Juan
God Bless America!
Thanks for all of your time in writing this. One of the best I have ever read in 2 years. Pure brilillance.!
Thanks for all of your time in writing this. One of the best I have ever read in 2 years. Pure brilillance.!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Zero0ne
Don Juan
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The links at the bottom of each post link to sosuave.com/vbulletin/... instead of sosuave.net/forums/...
Works now.
The links at the bottom of each post link to sosuave.com/vbulletin/... instead of sosuave.net/forums/...
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idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Bump.
Geez, that was third time I read this entire thing.... but not my last.
Thanks for all your effort, Señor Fingers.
Geez, that was third time I read this entire thing.... but not my last.
Thanks for all your effort, Señor Fingers.
This was the first sosuave post i ever read, that started me down the road. Mad props to fingers, and if you havent read it...do it now! The breathing from the diaphagram still puzzles me, i havent been able to do it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.