"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Want to talk about sex..but yet i don't

bud_2005

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I want to talk to it about her and hopefully get her into mood. But when its all said it done she'll ask how many women I've had sex with. I'm still a virgin so I don't want to scare her away. Should I just stay away from the topic?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sexy_kuta

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if shes your girl then whats wrong with being honest?

if shes just a girl u wanna lay with and fuk with.. Lie.. i do it all the time.. it makes the situation better
 

Climax

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sexy_kuta said:
if shes just a girl u wanna lay with and fuk with.. Lie.. i do it all the time.. it makes the situation better
Whats there to lie about? Is being YOU really THAT bad?:crackup: ,,, nah just playing man:)

bud_2005: Like sexy_kuta said.. if she is your girl, then she will love you and be with u regardless if you are a virgin or not. And if she aint your girl, then just play it kewl, if the question comes up, and you feel insecure about still being a virgin, then just tell her that you aren't... not that big of a deal with any random girl...


Laterz...
 

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I dont get what this lark is about virgins. What your a virgin? Ahhhhh i will run a mile!


???

A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that


Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.

Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.


Sarge On!
 

Climax

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Tomatoes said:
I dont get what this lark is about virgins. What your a virgin? Ahhhhh i will run a mile!


???

A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that


Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.

Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.


Sarge On!
As much as what u say is (or rather, SHOULD BE) TRUE, unfortunately a lot of women these days are shallow enough to judge a guy based on his experience in bed. Sad... but true:)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the first girl i was with. she liked the fact i was a virgin. i think some girls like to take a guys virginity away. she told me it was a turn on. although she was married.
 

Climax

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bingo_ said:
the first girl i was with. she liked the fact i was a virgin. i think some girls like to take a guys virginity away. she told me it was a turn on. although she was married.
True... if only ALL women were like that.. eh?:D ... All women are diffferent... the saying "each to his own" comes to mind. :)


Laterz...
 

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Yup, all woman are different. Some aren't bothered, some might be skeptical, some find it a turn on.

Either way, you're not going to know until you find out right?
 
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