"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Want to talk about sex..but yet i don't

bud_2005

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I want to talk to it about her and hopefully get her into mood. But when its all said it done she'll ask how many women I've had sex with. I'm still a virgin so I don't want to scare her away. Should I just stay away from the topic?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sexy_kuta

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if shes your girl then whats wrong with being honest?

if shes just a girl u wanna lay with and fuk with.. Lie.. i do it all the time.. it makes the situation better
 

Climax

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sexy_kuta said:
if shes just a girl u wanna lay with and fuk with.. Lie.. i do it all the time.. it makes the situation better
Whats there to lie about? Is being YOU really THAT bad?:crackup: ,,, nah just playing man:)

bud_2005: Like sexy_kuta said.. if she is your girl, then she will love you and be with u regardless if you are a virgin or not. And if she aint your girl, then just play it kewl, if the question comes up, and you feel insecure about still being a virgin, then just tell her that you aren't... not that big of a deal with any random girl...


Laterz...
 

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I dont get what this lark is about virgins. What your a virgin? Ahhhhh i will run a mile!


???

A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that


Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.

Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.


Sarge On!
 

Climax

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Tomatoes said:
I dont get what this lark is about virgins. What your a virgin? Ahhhhh i will run a mile!


???

A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that


Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.

Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.


Sarge On!
As much as what u say is (or rather, SHOULD BE) TRUE, unfortunately a lot of women these days are shallow enough to judge a guy based on his experience in bed. Sad... but true:)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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the first girl i was with. she liked the fact i was a virgin. i think some girls like to take a guys virginity away. she told me it was a turn on. although she was married.
 

Climax

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bingo_ said:
the first girl i was with. she liked the fact i was a virgin. i think some girls like to take a guys virginity away. she told me it was a turn on. although she was married.
True... if only ALL women were like that.. eh?:D ... All women are diffferent... the saying "each to his own" comes to mind. :)


Laterz...
 

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Yup, all woman are different. Some aren't bothered, some might be skeptical, some find it a turn on.

Either way, you're not going to know until you find out right?
 
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