I want to talk to it about her and hopefully get her into mood. But when its all said it done she'll ask how many women I've had sex with. I'm still a virgin so I don't want to scare her away. Should I just stay away from the topic?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Want to talk about sex..but yet i don't
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whats there to lie about? Is being YOU really THAT bad?:crackup: ,,, nah just playing mansexy_kuta said:
bud_2005: Like sexy_kuta said.. if she is your girl, then she will love you and be with u regardless if you are a virgin or not. And if she aint your girl, then just play it kewl, if the question comes up, and you feel insecure about still being a virgin, then just tell her that you aren't... not that big of a deal with any random girl...
Laterz...
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I dont get what this lark is about virgins. What your a virgin? Ahhhhh i will run a mile!
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A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that
Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.
Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.
Sarge On!
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A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that
Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.
Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.
Sarge On!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.