I want to talk to it about her and hopefully get her into mood. But when its all said it done she'll ask how many women I've had sex with. I'm still a virgin so I don't want to scare her away. Should I just stay away from the topic?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Want to talk about sex..but yet i don't
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whats there to lie about? Is being YOU really THAT bad?:crackup: ,,, nah just playing mansexy_kuta said:
bud_2005: Like sexy_kuta said.. if she is your girl, then she will love you and be with u regardless if you are a virgin or not. And if she aint your girl, then just play it kewl, if the question comes up, and you feel insecure about still being a virgin, then just tell her that you aren't... not that big of a deal with any random girl...
Laterz...
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I dont get what this lark is about virgins. What your a virgin? Ahhhhh i will run a mile!
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A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that
Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.
Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.
Sarge On!
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A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that
Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.
Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.
Sarge On!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.