I want to talk to it about her and hopefully get her into mood. But when its all said it done she'll ask how many women I've had sex with. I'm still a virgin so I don't want to scare her away. Should I just stay away from the topic?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Want to talk about sex..but yet i don't
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Whats there to lie about? Is being YOU really THAT bad?:crackup: ,,, nah just playing mansexy_kuta said:
bud_2005: Like sexy_kuta said.. if she is your girl, then she will love you and be with u regardless if you are a virgin or not. And if she aint your girl, then just play it kewl, if the question comes up, and you feel insecure about still being a virgin, then just tell her that you aren't... not that big of a deal with any random girl...
Laterz...
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I dont get what this lark is about virgins. What your a virgin? Ahhhhh i will run a mile!
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A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that
Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.
Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.
Sarge On!
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A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that
Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.
Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.
Sarge On!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.