I want to talk to it about her and hopefully get her into mood. But when its all said it done she'll ask how many women I've had sex with. I'm still a virgin so I don't want to scare her away. Should I just stay away from the topic?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Whats there to lie about? Is being YOU really THAT bad?:crackup: ,,, nah just playing mansexy_kuta said:if shes just a girl u wanna lay with and fuk with.. Lie.. i do it all the time.. it makes the situation better
As much as what u say is (or rather, SHOULD BE) TRUE, unfortunately a lot of women these days are shallow enough to judge a guy based on his experience in bed. Sad... but trueTomatoes said:I dont get what this lark is about virgins. What your a virgin? Ahhhhh i will run a mile!
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A virgin is like 10 points! Everyone knows that
Tell her your a virgin. She wont mind and it will also explain why your sh!t in bed the first time you DO shag her.
Dont be shy to bring up sex. Men think about it every 7 seconds (on average) so we are allowed.
Sarge On!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
True... if only ALL women were like that.. eh?bingo_ said:the first girl i was with. she liked the fact i was a virgin. i think some girls like to take a guys virginity away. she told me it was a turn on. although she was married.