"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Waited too long to **** her....LOL
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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It's black genetics they can't be helpedBlue Hef said:
Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago - I left things too late: Some HB8 I used to know from years ago contacts me again quite randomly through FB, after enjoying a comment I made on a mutual friend's page. She's flirting big time. She gets my email address and I play it like I couldn't give a sh1t, but then SHE escalates things quite quickly. She starts sending me VERY explicit X rated pictures / videos by email and MMS, her with toys, gorgeous underwear on, in the bath stuff, says she's a squirter and sends me video evidence. It also turns out she's a kinkster and is a big **** fan and very submissive. Wants me to go around there, Dominate, whip, spank, hot wax and fvck the sh1t out of her. "You can do ANYTHING you like to me.. oh and I love pain." were her words. She's got all the gear too, really into the scene.
So anyway I was planning on visiting her (she's live quite a way away) but I'd booked some time away on a holiday and was away with work related stuff, so couldn't for a few weeks. Anyway when I get back I fancy some hardcore action, I email her and she replies...
"I really want to, but I've just met someone and it wouldn't be fair to him."
She'd gone to a party met some bloke and that's it, opportunity missed..... sigh....!
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Ouch man that's the worst.Skalioppe said:
That really sucks because your girl was WAY more obvious than my story. I mean wtf man!!! Where did you have to go that was so important???
That girl sounds like a HUGE freak. And definitely not the relationship type of girl. fvck that guy seriously. get back with her and hit that.
You can't change the past but I really wish you would have visited her for like one night only...give her a little taste you know what I'm saying and then left to do your business. Then she wouldn't be so concerned with whatever fvcktard she's dealing with now
such is life !!!!!!
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and she isn't 13Skalioppe said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
bcolon
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She is okay. I guess. She scares me because she looks very young like she is freshman in high school and you look like a senior in college.
That BPD is a HUGE turn off and like Zerro said, the rating system is broken. It's either fvck or not fvck. Simple. That's the best system.
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bcolon said:
From your text you seem kind of...depressed. Are you doing alright bcolon?
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Solomon said:
Ouch...thanks for posting this.
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The vortex is starting to swirl again and my future sanity depends on my staying away (which I can easily do now).
Beware the BPD. She is the strongest drug known to mankind. They can be extremely difficult to get rid of.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I would have "piped her" right quick, then dropped at the first sign of trouble.
Missed opportunity for sure. It happens to the best of us. I missed out on a 3-some once.
The pics of both girls are equally fvckable IMO. I'd rate them both 7's by the photos.
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Well both girls happen to be the same personpdx1138 said: